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REFLECTIONS

FROM

FATHER JAY A. FINELLI,

VISITOR OF THE CONFRATERNITY OF PENITENTS

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ANGELS (SEE SAINTS)

THE CHURCH

Precepts of the Church

Something Greater Than the Temple

The Church as the New Temple

DOGMA

Dogma vs. Discipline: Reflections on Acts 15

CONVERSION

Accepting Christ, Rejecting Christ

Personal Responsibility

Putting on the Traits of God

COVENANT

Chosen by the Lord

The Covenant That Sets Us Apart

DEATH

Our Own End Time

ETERNAL LIFE

Foretaste of Glory

EVANGELIZATION

Different Than the World

Podcasting:  Another Way to Reach the World for Christ

Podcasting: Even the Pope Listens

Sharing Our Faith Experiences

FAITH

God Has the Victory

If the Resurrection Weren't True

Lambs in the Midst of Wolves

Seeking Signs

FASTING

The Real Purpose of Fasting and Abstaining

FORGIVENESS

Forgive as God Has Forgiven Us

Lesson in Forgiveness from Joseph and His Brothers

HEAVEN, PURGATORY AND HELL

Heaven and Hell

The Kingdom of God Is Among You

Praying for the Dead in Purgatory

HOLY SPIRIT

Come, Holy Spirit!

JESUS

God Is With Us

Jesus in the Ordinary

Where Do You Want to Go?

MARRIAGE

The Sanctity of Marriage

MARY

The Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary

MISSION

Becoming Leaven in the World

Mustard Seed Planted by God

Saints Benedict and Scholastica: Examples of Complementarity between Men and Women in the Spiritual Life

MIRACLES

We See Miracles

POPE

Jesus, the Good Shepherd

PRAYER

Jesus' Hour

Contemplation of the Face of God

The Kingdom of God Is Among You

Seek the Lord in Silence

Take Time for Silence

SAINTS

The Example of the Saints

Mary Magdalene: Called to Be a Lover of God

Saint Michael and the Other Archangels

North American Martyrs

SERVICE

Be Doers of the Word, Not Hearers Only

SIN

Sin and Responsibility

VOCATIONS

Encouraging Religious Vocations

Springtime of Faith

True Vocation Involves Suffering and Sweetness

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REFLECTIONS

DECEMBER REFLECTIONS

GOD IS WITH US

The final O Antiphon for Advent was “O Emmanuel, king and lawgiver, desire of the nations, Savior of all people, come and set us free, Lord our God.” The other six O Antiphons leading up to Christmas were all directed to the God of the Chosen People, the Israelites, and toward the Gentile people and toward the God reflected in nature. But the last O Antiphon is a direct call to God Himself, “Emmanuel,” God Who is with us, the long-awaited Messiah. Finally He is with God’s people.  

After all the prophecies and longing, after all the preparation for thousands of years, people were waiting for the coming of the Messiah. And finally, God Himself is with us. But not only does this Antiphon give the Messiah the name Emmanuel but it gives Him other names—“king,” the One Who comes to rule His people. He is the One Who is meant to reign over our lives, to take control of our lives. We need to be his subjects, under His rule and under His command. We are sent forth by Him to proclaim the message of God’s coming.  

He is the “lawgiver,” but we must not only know that and believe in the lawgiver. We must accept his laws and obey them.  

He is the “desire of the nations’—our hearts long for Him. He is the only one who fulfills our desire. As Saint Augustine said, “Our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.” He is the only one who fills that emptiness.  

We have so many desires in life. The world went mad going Christmas shopping. The presents went under that tree. You ripped off all the wrappings, and what is left? The greatest gift is the One on Whom this feast is centered. God is with us to fill all our longings and desires. He is the savior of all people, the one who came not just for the chosen people or the Gentiles but for all people. No one is excluded. There is not one man, woman, or child who is left out of God’s plan of salvation. He desires that all come to live in eternal life with Him.

The final O antiphon of Advent summaries our hope in our God. “Come and set us free, Lord our God.” He is with us and He reigns for all eternity. He is the Lord, Our God, King of our lives. God is with us! 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Our Own End Time

 

Scripture reminds us that, during the end times, Elijah will return. Jesus said that he already came, in the person of John the Baptist. What about the end times? The end times are the times of the Messiah, when God’s own Son came to earth to redeem His people.

 

So when we hear that the end times have come, it does not mean that the end of the world has come. It means that the end of the world is at hand. Why? Because eventually the end of the world comes. It does not mean that when the Messiah comes, that is the end of the world. It means that the Messiah is coming to bring God’s people back to the Father, to return us to where we ought to be. So Elijah was that one who prepared the way. He is the precursor of the Messiah. He prepares the way for the coming of the Lord.

 

So, in a real way, all of us are called to be precursors, to prepare the way of the Lord. We don’t know when that hour will come. We don’t know when the end of the world will come. We don’t know when our life will end because Jesus can come for us at any minute. So it does not matter to me personally if the end of the world will come today if I am going to lose my life before that. What is important is that we prepare to meet the Lord. That is the message of John the Baptist, the message of Our Lord Jesus Christ, the message of the Gospel. To prepare our hearts to meet the Lord.

 

When Jesus came, people thought that He was going to come again on the clouds in their lifetime. But He has not come yet that way. If He did, it would put an end to these world problems. I don’t know if we will see that end, but you and I will see our own end. We know that the Lord will come to take each one of us to His Kingdom. Let us prepare for that day.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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The Kingdom of God is among You

 

So Pilate went back into the praetorium and summoned Jesus and said to him, "Are you the King of the Jews?" Jesus answered, "Do you say this on your own or have others told you about me?" Pilate answered, "I am not a Jew, am I? Your own nation and the chief priests handed you over to me. What have you done?" Jesus answered, "My kingdom does not belong to this world. If my kingdom did belong to this world, my attendants (would) be fighting to keep me from being handed over to the Jews. But as it is, my kingdom is not here." So Pilate said to him, "Then you are a king?" Jesus answered, "You say I am a king. For this I was born and for this I came into the world, to testify to the truth. Everyone who belongs to the truth listens to my voice." Pilate said to him, "What is truth?" (John 18:33-38)

 

When Pilate asked Jesus to tell him who He was, I don’t think Pilate was a true skeptic. I think he was asking Jesus sincerely, “Who are you?” He wanted to know. He was a man who was a product of his own time and place. He didn’t have the gift of faith.

 

Sometimes I think that, in our world of today, there are many people like Pilate. They are searching but they live for today. They don’t know that there is a future. Some people live as if this is it—what we have here and now is it—this is the end of everything—there is no heaven or hell—after we leave, that’s the end of us.

 

So is there a heaven? And where is heaven?

 

Most of you believe there is a heaven or you wouldn’t be reading this. Thanks be to God there is a heaven and an afterlife. So where is heaven? Heaven is out of this world. Heaven is the kingdom that Jesus talks about. The kingdom of Jesus Christ has no temporal possessions. Everything here is going to disappear some day. There are no senators or congressmen. He has no army to defend Him. He told us, “If I had an army, my attendants would be fighting to keep me from being handed over.

 

So where is the kingdom of our Lord Jesus Christ? Where is heaven? Jesus tells us in Luke’s Gospel (17:21),”Behold, the kingdom of God is among you.” The kingdom of God is among you? What, are you crazy? It doesn’t seem too much like heaven in this world that we live in! The kingdom of God is among us who believe, who have faith in God, in the Lord Jesus Christ. Heaven begins now. We don’t just wait for heaven. When we close our eyes and walk through the door, that is heaven, yes. But heaven begins here and now where the Presence of God, the Presence of the Lord Jesus Christ is. Because Jesus is with us who believe, heaven begins here and now.

 

You know that old saying, “the eye is the lamp of the soul”? You know how sometimes you look in the newspaper and you see an ax murderer or somebody like Hitler—look at those old pictures of Hitler. Look into their eyes. It’s really eerie. It’s almost like you feel fear because you can see hell. Hell begins now, too, for those who are anti-God, anti-faith. I’m not talking about the ordinary person who doesn’t believe in God but about those who enter into the depths of evil. For a man like Hitler, hell began when he walked this earth. God willing, he had some kind of change of heart before he died.

 

For us, heaven begins here and now because God is with us. We have the Lord Jesus Christ and we have to foster the Kingdom of God. We have to seek the Kingdom of God and strengthen it in our lives. Jesus said, “Seek first the Kingdom of God and all things will take care of themselves.” How do we do that? We do that first and foremost through the sacraments. Jesus comes to us. He brings His grace and roots it more firmly in our hearts, souls, and lives. We experience the Kingdom in prayer. I’m not saying we have experiences all the time because we can’t base our faith on feelings, but I bet that most of us have experienced the Kingdom in some way or other. Have you ever entered into prayer? After Communion, I try to enter into prayer deep within. It’s hard to do because there are so many distractions. But every now and then, when I am in the church or in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament, I’ll close my eyes and I’ll somehow get rid of those distractions and enter into that place where there is such a peace that I’d just like to be there forever. I bet you’ve experienced that. Or you go to certain places and find that peace. I often go to the Trappist Monastery up in Spencer, Massachusetts. I had a funeral up there for a priest friend of mine last Friday. When I walked into the chapel, it was almost like water was poured on me. I could feel the peace. That’s a taste of heaven! God gives us these tastes of heaven to give us a deeper longing for the Kingdom because you and I are destined to be in God’s Kingdom for all eternity. So let us pray that we may foster and deepen that peace in our lives so that not only may we experience His Kingdom within our hearts and our souls but that we may spread that Kingdom to all people whom we meet so that they may come to recognize Jesus Christ as their King.

 

God love you,

Fr. Finelli

 

God Has the Victory

 

In the Book of Revelation, we see three stages in the life of the Church. In the first part, we see the enemy of God’s people, satan, who is battling against God’s people, against those who give their lives for the Church because they are faithful to Christ. In the second section, we see the general and final judgment of God’s people, those who remained faithful and those who were not. At the end of the Book of Revelation, we see that great victory where there will be a new heavens and a new earth. That’s a message that Saint John wants us all to take—that there will be a new heavens and a new earth, that it doesn’t end with suffering and tribulation. There is hope in the midst of persecution!

 

That’s a good message for today’s world. There is hope in the midst of our world that is anti-Christ, that goes against God or has a message against the Gospel. There will be a new heavens and new earth! God will bring about victory. When we look at the many issues that the Church faces many issues today—abortion or whatever it might be—that we understand that God has the victory, that His Kingdom will rule. It’s really what the Church tries to remind us of at the end of the liturgical year. As we enter into the new liturgical year with the beginning of Advent, it’s like entering into the new heavens and the new earth where Christ does reign. So as we look at the trials and difficulty, wars and massive amounts of killings in many nations, whatever it might be, that we know that the Lord Jesus Christ has victory! Everything that He did on the cross, that He rose from the dead, was not in vain. But we need to persevere in our faith, to pray, to be faithful, so that, when God judges us, we will be welcome into His Kingdom.

 

God love you.

Father Finelli

NOVEMBER REFLECTIONS

True Vocation Involves Suffering and Sweetness

 

“Then the voice that I had heard from heaven spoke to me again and said, "Go, take the scroll that lies open in the hand of the angel who is standing on the sea and on the land." So I went up to the angel and told him to give me the small scroll. He said to me, "Take and swallow it. It will turn your stomach sour, but in your mouth it will taste as sweet as honey." I took the small scroll from the angel's hand and swallowed it. In my mouth it was like sweet honey, but when I had eaten it, my stomach turned sour. Then someone said to me, "You must prophesy again about many peoples, nations, tongues, and kings." (Revelations 10: 8-11)

 

In the book of Revelation, we get a “taste” of John’s vocation, pardon the pun. John talks about the scroll. He gives us a sign of what his vocation was like. He said, “When he ate it, it was sweet to the mouth.” When the Lord called him, there was sweetness and joy. He was filled with happiness, and then, when it went to the stomach, it turned sour. John had bitterness in his life because of his vocation.

 

The vocation, the call from God, the call to do God’s work is sweet. It’s a joy to follow our mighty Lord, but, just like the ministry of Christ, we can’t always have joy in our lives. Our lives have to have suffering, too. We go up to Mount Tabor where we experience the glory of the Lord as the Apostles did who went up with Him. Peter said, “Let us build three tents. We’ll stay here. This is awesome!” But they could not stay. They had to come down. We have the point where we have to go to the cross with our Lord. Peter came to the Lord and said, “Oh, Lord, don’t go that way!” He didn’t’ want Jesus to be crucified. What did Jesus say? “Get behind me, satan.” He had to go to Calvary.


It’s the same with all of us. We can’t just have the joy or the mountaintop. We can’t just have the resurrection. We have to have the cross as well. We have to have both. If you find somebody who is always in the glory, that’s not a true vocation. All of us are called to share in Christ’s cross and suffering, and then we find resurrection.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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The Kingdom of God Is among You

 

“The Kingdom of God is among you.” Sometimes you wonder. You look at the world around you and you say, “Where is the Kingdom of God?”

 

But it’s a matter of finding God’s Kingdom within us because we who are baptized have the Lord living within us, the Trinity living within us. Where there is God, there is the Kingdom, there is heaven.

 

Sometimes we fail to find that inner place. That’s why it’s important to take time for quiet meditation, not just praying but closing our eyes and entering the depths. As John Paul II said, “Go out into the depths.” That’s contemplation. To enter into His Presence, to let His Presence exude from within us out.

 

The Kingdom of Heaven is not a matter of chasing Him from one place to another. We come into the church. We can go from one shrine to another, go here and there and not find God. We have to find Him within first, to let Him enter, to let Him come out of the depths of our souls to affect our lives.

 

So let us pray that we might find that place, that secret place where God dwells within us. Jesus says, “Go to your room and close the door.” He means the door of our hearts. We need to enter there and look for Him there. We received the graces during our baptism to have Him in our hearts.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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The Church as the New Temple

When Jesus went into the Temple and overturned the tables of the money changers, we might ask why He did it that day and not any other day. What he saw that day was an every day occurrence. Those working in the Temple had to sell the animals that were needed for the sacrifice. So why does Jesus flip out? Why does He flip everything over, cause chaos, and drive all the money changers out?

 Really, the rabbis should have known what He was saying. He was saying that their sacrifice was coming to an end. Jesus said, “Destroy this Temple and in three days, I will raise it up.” They knew that He wasn’t talking about a building because in Sacred Scripture, had they read the prophets and prophecies, they should have known that Jesus was saying He was the new Sacrifice, that He came to abolish the old sacrifice for a new Sacrifice. There would no longer be sacrifices of animals. There would no longer be need of an animal because the Father sent the Lamb of God. 

Animal sacrifice was empty. It had no power to forgive sin. It was a symbol. The rabbis would place their sins in a symbolic way on the animal and sacrifice it and then the people would eat the animal as a sign that they shared the sacrifice. So Jesus was coming to bring the new sacrifice of His own Body that would be destroyed, and in three days He would raise that Temple again. What a gift! That God Himself would become our sacrifice. That’s why our churches are so sacred.  

It’s interesting that, when Mother Angelica built her shrine of the Blessed Sacrament, she didn’t call it a basilica or a church. She called it a temple because the temple is the place of sacrifice. In reality, our church is a temple. It’s where the Son of the Living God, the Lamb of God, Who did away with the old sacrifices, is Himself sacrificed. This church is Calvary for us. It is the place where our sins are forgiven. We are brought back, or the past is brought to us, so that we partake of the Lamb of God Who was sacrificed for us. It’s just like the Old Testament. They had to eat of the flesh of the lamb. Now in this Sacrifice of the altar, He gives us His Flesh and His Blood to eat so that we can experience the effects of our redemption.

 We have just celebrated the Feast of the Dedication of St. John Lateran. That’s really the Pope’s basilica. We think of St. Peter’s as being the Pope’s Church. It really isn’t. St. John Lateran is because it is the Church of Rome and the Pope, as Bishop of Rome has St. John Lateran as his basilica, his cathedral. In reality, that’s our cathedral. Why would we celebrate a dedication? Because the church is a sacred place. It’s the place where you come for the sacrifice of Christ but also where He’s alive and His Presence remains. So our church is different from a temple. God hovered over the area in the desert where only the Commandments were present, but God comes down and visibly remains in our temple in the Sacrifice that was meant for our salvation. 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Praying for the Dead in Purgatory

 

On All Saints’ Day, we recognize how many unknown souls go to the kingdom. But we also know that some of us won’t go straight to heaven. There is a place called Purgatory where we have to go to be purified. Maybe some of those who think they are perfect will be surprised to find out that they aren’t—that they have to go to Purgatory to be purified rather than go straight to heaven.

 

Purgatory is a great gift because it shows us how merciful Almighty God is. If God weren’t merciful, if His mercy did not reach out to us, if we were not perfectly pure and perfectly holy when we left this life, we would have to go to hell, because you can only go to heaven if you’re perfect—that is completely purified, completely holy. Purgatory is the place where those, who are destined to go to heaven, go first to be readied for heaven. These are those who have lived a good and holy life but who died with some imperfection, some venial sin or fault or failure on their souls. They did not die in mortal sin, because, with a mortal sin on your soul, you can’t go to heaven.

 

Purgatory shows God’s love for us. He loves us so much that He created Purgatory for us. We don’t know where Purgatory is, or even if it is a place somewhere, or if it is something that happens when we are passing through this life. But we know that it’s God’s love for us in action. It’s kind of like when you are going to a wedding and you have been working in the garden. You don’t go to the wedding dressed in your dirty clothes. You don’t go to the wedding before you take your shower and cleanse yourself. You take a shower and put on your best because you want to be the best you can be to go to that wedding. When we go to that wedding celebration in the Kingdom of Heaven to be with that Bridegroom, the Lord Jesus Christ, we want to be the best we can be.

 

During the month of November, we pray for our brothers and sisters who have died with imperfections, with some faults and failures. We feel unity with them, on the Feast of All Souls on November 2, when we pray especially for the dead, but also all through this month. Those who have gone before us are still with us. Imagine! The souls in Heaven and Purgatory are behind a veil. If we could only see behind that veil, we would realize that they walk among us.

 

You hear all these ghost stories. I believe these ghost stories are often of people coming back to us because they need our prayers. Just look at the lives of the saints. How many times was Padre Pio frightened because a soul from Purgatory came to him and said, “Pray for me.” Usually, because he was in a monastery, a deceased priest or friar would come to him and say, “Pray for me because I didn’t live my religious life as I was called to live it.” Imagine, in those days, they didn’t live their religious life the way they were called to live it! They had great penances and said many prayers! But they would say, “Pray for me because I need to go to heaven.” What an awesome reminder to us to pray for those who have gone before us!

 

Each year during this month we pray for the souls in Purgatory. And we ought to pray especially for the souls we don’t know. We do pray for people we do know, but imagine the ones who have no one to pray for them. Imagine the ones who have no family member who believes in heaven, Purgatory or hell—they just believe in this life. No one will make a sacrifice for the deceased or to offer a prayer for them.

 

The Scriptures talk about praying for the dead and offering sacrifices for them. Judas Maccabeus found out that some of his soldiers who died in battle had amulets, that is, good luck charms, because they were looking to false gods. But Judas Maccabeus collected money for these soldiers and sent it to Jerusalem to offer sacrifices for those who died so that they might be freed and go to heaven.

 

Scripture tells us that we will be purified as gold in a fire. Those who purify gold hold it over the fire in a metal cup and the gold separates out from the impurities. That’s what happens in Purgatory. What is already beautiful become radiant and the impurities are burned away!

 

So during this month of November, let us remember those who have gone before us and pray for them, especially for those who have no one to pray for them.

 

This is a good month to pray the complete Psalter for all deceased penitents of all times, as the CFP Rule states. This is praying for the dead, and for those who have no one to pray for them. Imagine! Those in the CFP who die will have other penitents praying the complete Psalter for them, at least once a year. What a great gift of prayer!

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

OCTOBER REFLECTIONS

The Example of the Saints

 

“By keeping the memorials of the saints – first of all the holy Mother of God, then the apostles, the martyrs, and other saints – on fixed days of the liturgical year, the Church on earth sows that she is untied with the liturgy of heaven. She gives glory to Christ for having accomplished his salvation in his glorified members; their example encourages her on her way to the Father.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 1195)

 

From the early days of the life of the Church there has been a devotion to the men and women who lived heroic lives. Usually, those who received this popular acclaim had given their lives for the Faith. During the times of persecution, Mass was often celebrated in the catacombs on the tombs of the martyrs. This tradition was continued through the relics o the martyrs which were place in the altar stone before it was consecrated by the Bishop.

 

The saints remain an important part of the life of the Church today. The Liturgy has various ranks for the celebration of the saints. One might ask why we celebrate the saints. First, we must point out that we do not worship the saints. The saints are our brothers and sisters who have accomplished what we are striving for. These are the men, women, and children who lived lives of heroic virtue. They are our family awaiting us in the kingdom.

 

Reading the lives of the saints gives us inspiration in daily life. They show us that it is possible to be fully committed to Christ and the Church even in our times. Let us turn to them for help in our struggles and strive to be like them in the total commitment to Christ.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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The North American Martyrs

 

We celebrated this past week the feast of the North American martyrs (October 19). These were eight Jesuit missionaries who came from France to New York and Ontario, to the new settlers in the New World. Many times they were beaten and tortured. The Indians used to really torture them. They used to grab their fingernails with their teeth and rip them out. They would chew them to the bone, cut off their ears, and then they’d be sent back to France to recover. But, after they had recovered, they would say that they had to go back to the New World to continue to reach out to those who didn’t yet know the Gospel. Imagine! What a courageous faith they had, what virtue! It’s amazing.

 

They were the evangelists of the New World. We’ve come to a point, I believe, where we need a reevangelization of the New World. This country was founded by people of faith, yet look how far we have gone! I think that these martyrs are great intercessors for our time.

 

Some of you may have had the opportunity of going to Auriesville, New York, or Midland, Ontario, where there are beautiful shrines to the North American martyrs. In New York, for example, you can see where Blessed Kateri Tekawitha (who was not one of the martyrs, by the way) was baptized in a round church, in the center of which is an altar. Around the four sides are four altars also, where Mass has been celebrated for years. Then you go down the street and you find the poor, little church where Blessed Kateri was baptized. It’s such a poor church that you can even see outside through the boards. The church is only used in warm weather.

 

I recommend that, if you ever want to make a pilgrimage, that you visit a Shrine of the Martyrs It’s a great place to go and pray, to witness the wonder and beauty of these eight men who gave their lives for Christ and, not only them, but so many others in the United States, Canada, Mexico, all across the New World who, because they loved the faith so much, were willing to be persecuted, tortured, and killed for that faith.

 

The old saying goes “the blood of the martyrs is the seed of faith.” Maybe that is what brings conversion and light to those who do not believe. Maybe that’s we need in modern times--persecution so that we can plant the seeds of faith for future generations.

 

God love you.

Father Finelli

 

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Seeking Signs

 

The Pharisees said to Jesus, “Give us a sign that we might believe.” They were always looking for signs from Jesus. Jesus had just given them a great sign of the coming of the Kingdom of God because He had just cast out a demon. Who could cast out demons except for God Himself? Nobody except for God Himself and anybody to whom God had given that authority. In fact, the Pharisees used to cast out devils, but Scripture commentaries tell us that the Pharisees were just like the Egyptian priests who really didn’t cast out devils. They used to perform a ritual that looked almost like a magical spell but it really didn’t work. Jesus really gave a sign of Who He was, that He was the chosen one of the Father, the Messiah, that He was God among us. He gave this sign by casting out devils because there was no one before Him who could do that.

 

Jesus’ sign to the Pharisees  is a powerful sign to all of us of the power of God over all creation. There are devils, but we are looked after. The grace of God protects us as long as we remain in the sacraments and prayer.

 

So let us give thanks to the Lord Who gives us signs in our lives. We have many signs. We have the Eucharist. We have the sacrament of Penance (Reconciliation) where God forgives us. We have all the signs that God gives us, but then He gives us daily signs in our own personal lives, little signs. But we have to be open to the signs that God is giving to us. How many times do we know that God is there, but we pass Him by? How many times does God prove His love for us but we pass it by? We need to reflect and to think about our lives. Don’t let those moments of grace pass us by. Think about them. Let them affect our daily lives. We are not alone in this world. God’s Presence still continues in this world, and He is with us to overcome all evil in our lives.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Encouraging Religious Vocations

 

Jesus told His disciples that “the harvest is great but laborers are few.” He then gave a description of what is expected of those who are his disciples. What he says is really interesting. “Pray to our Heavenly Father, and He will send more laborers into the harvest.“

 

We have seen a great vocation shortage in the Church in our time. It seems, thanks be to God, that vocations are coming back in our Providence, Rhode Island, diocese. Why? Because in our diocese there is prayer for vocations. Prayer is the answer to the vocation crisis. There is no other answer. If you want vocations, Jesus says, “Turn to our Heavenly Father. Ask the Father and He will send vocations.”

 

Sometimes I think priests are embarrassed to talk about their vocations. It’s very harmful if they keep silent because every priest is to be a vocation director. If the priest does not love his vocation, there is something wrong. It’s kind of like a sculptor who does not like to sculpt or a painter who does not like to paint or a construction worker who does not like to build things. We ought to like what we are doing!

 

All of us, in a sense, are called to be vocation directors. All Roman Catholics are called to find good men to serve the Church. We want good men to serve, and we think of some whom we know who we think would make good priests. They might have some attributes that would be suitable for the priesthood. Maybe some of these young men may not have thought of being a priest. You might mention to a young man, “Did you ever think of becoming a priest?” Or you might say to a young woman, “Did you ever think of giving yourself to God as a bride of Christ? Did you ever think of entering the convent?” You’ll be surprised at what happens when you say things like that. Sometimes you will have a young person who will say, “I never thought about it. But I’m going to.”

 

We do have one young man in our parish who is a definite, but besides him, there are other young men here who are thinking of becoming priests. We need to pray for these young men. There are also young women, about three or four , who have expressed a desire to become religious sisters (nuns), women consecrated to the Lord. What an awesome gift! We don’t see too many vocations but they are out there. You and I need to pray for vocations, encourage vocations, and they will come. If no one asks the young person, how will they hear the voice of God? Sometimes the Lord uses us as His voice. He is not going to come down from heaven and shout. That’s not how I heard my vocation. I never heard a voice from heaven or a loud thunderclap! But I did have an inner call, encouraged by those around me.

 

So let us make a great commitment to pray for vocations. We have them in our parish and they are in every parish. I sometimes think that there ought to be something coming down from the bishops. If a parish does not produce a vocation every ten years, then maybe they don’t need a priest. Wouldn’t that solve the vocation crisis? Maybe then parents would be willing to give their sons and daughters to the Church. If they aren’t willing, do they deserve a priest?

 

One time I gave a homily on vocations. It was at my first parish, in fact, a very well to do parish. After my talk, a lady come up to me and said, “I have a son, but I’d never let him become a priest.”

 

I said, “Why?”

 

“Well, until the Church allows priests to get married, I’d never let my son become a priest.”

 

Well, you know what, M’am? You would want me or another priest to be with you when you are dying, wouldn’t you? But maybe you won’t have anybody because you are not willing to give your son to Christ. Maybe that boy had a vocation, but she closed the door.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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St. Michael and the Other Archangels

In the book of Revelation (Chapter 12: 7-10), we hear about the battle Michael the Archangel led against the devil (Lucifer) and all his cohorts who turned against God in the beginning. But the battle never ended. That battle will go on until the end of the world because Lucifer (satan) is the one who, Scripture tells us, is “like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” The devil is out to get us!  Many people don’t believe in the devil, but the devil believes in God! He probably has more faith than all of us put together!  He knows the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. He knows when God is present. He knows where the saints are. If you read the lives of the saints, they get attacked.

 I recently bought a great full-length movie, done in Italy, on the life of Saint Padre Pio. The language of the movie is Italian so you have to read the sub-titles. There is one scene in the monastery in the middle of the night when you see the friars running through the monastery. They rush to Padre Pio’s room and you see the friars standing there, listening, because there is this ruckus going on. You see Padre Pio being thrown around the room. You see the friars pounding on the door. “Pio! Pio! What are  you doing in there?” When they finally get the door open, the devil has left and you see a beaten Padre Pio. He used to be beaten by the devil on different occasions. That is something that God allows to happen to certain chosen souls. 

It’s important for us to know that we have an enemy. But it’s also important to know that we have someone at our side. We actually have three “generals” that we know of, standing at our side. But there are also many more. Saint Michael appears in four places in Sacred Scripture. He appears in the Book of Daniel two times. Once he appears in the Book of Jude, verse 9, where he fights the devil over the body of Moses. He also appears in the Book of Revelation. Then we have Gabriel who also appears four times in Sacred Scripture. Twice in the Book of Daniel and twice in the Gospel according to St. Luke where he announces to Zechariah that he would have a son and also brings the good news to Mary, that she would be the chosen one, that she would be the Christ-bearer, the Mother of the Messiah. Finally we have St. Raphael who only appears in Sacred Scripture in the Book of Tobit where he accompanies Tobias on his journey and finally delivers Tobit’s daughter in law from the devil. 

So we see the three angels who are doing the work of God. Michael is often looked upon as the “judgment of God.” He casts satan out of heaven and casts him out of the lives of God’s people. Gabriel is looked upon as the “angel who speaks the message of God, who brings the word of God to God’s people.” Raphael is looked upon as “the healing agent.” When Tobit went blind, Raphael came with the healing powers of God to anoint Tobit’s eyes.  

We ought to cultivate a devotion to the angels, especially to Saint Michael. We can see that the battle is raging. Anybody who does not see the battle is spiritually blind. They need to shake themselves up, pick up that newspaper, and you see the battle taking place. It might be taking place in a physical way before us, but that is only a sign of what’s happening all over the world. Look at all the extremists who are using religion to fight a battle. The real battle is the one beneath that, the one that causes divisions between people and nations. Pope John Paul II often said that we need to take up that prayer to St. Michael the Archangel that was said for so many years at the end of Mass.  Foster a devotion to St. Michael. *

You can probably look at your lives and see times when the devil was there, tempting and trying to cause fear. He causes confusion and discouragement. We know we are at war, but we know there is a victory. We have a leader who leads us in the name of Jesus—Michael, the great Archangel. 

God love you,

Father Finelli

* The Confraternity of Penitents suggests praying daily to St. Michael to help end the moral degradation of our own individual nations. The prayer to St. Michael is on this link.

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SEPTEMBER REFLECTIONS

If the Resurrection Weren’t True

 

I remember hearing that, in the seventies and eighties, there were some seminary professors who actually said that someday they’ll find the bones of Jesus! Can you imagine that? If I believed that, I’d pack up my bags and say, “I might as well live it up because, when this life is over, that’s the end of it.”

 

The resurrection is really the center of what we’re all about. The death of Christ is also the center of what we’re all about. His death brought about our reconciliation to the Father, but the resurrection gave us life. Without the resurrection, you and I ain’t gettin’ to heaven! And without the resurrection, you and I, when we close our eyes to this life, will be as dead as a door knob! But, thanks be to God, you and I believe that Christ did rise from the dead. It all didn’t end on the cross.

 

And God gives us signs in this life of resurrection. All you have to do is look at nature around us. Plant life—we know that in just a few weeks, a month, everything that is growing around us will begin to die. And we know again that, when we reach spring, it’s going to come back to life. You know, when you take a seed and place it in the ground, if you are a good farmer or gardener, you know it’s going to grow. There is the cycle again. We are like the seeds that die and then grow. See, God speaks to us through nature. He has a mysterious plan. There is an organization to it all. It all reflects the great mystery and love of God, that you and I will rise again because Jesus rose first. As St. Paul said, “If this isn’t true, then our faith is in vain. If it’s not true, there is no point in us gathering around the altar at Mass. Nothing is happening on that altar. If it’s not true that Jesus rose from the dead, then our sins aren’t forgiven through baptism. But it is true! He did it. Because of Him, we have hope of eternal life. Praised be Jesus Christ, now and forever!

 

God love you.

Father Finelli

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Sin and Responsibility

"Sin is present in human history; any attempt to ignore it or to give this dark reality other names would be futile. To try to understand what sin is, one must first recognize the profound relation of man to God, for only in this relationship is the evil of sin unmasked in its true identity as humanity's rejection of God and opposition to him, even as it continues to weigh heavy on human life and history." (Catechism of the Catholic Church 386)

We live in a difficult period in human history. People no longer want to face the hard facts of reality. When the Vatican recently released a document to Catholic politicians reminding them that they have a serious obligation to protect Christian marriage and oppose the legalization of same-sex unions and marriages, the media had their usual negative response. However, what was most disturbing was the arrogant response of a certain unnamed ?Catholic? politician. He claimed that the Church’s opposition to same-sex marriage is "bigotry or discrimination", and that his understanding of Scripture is very different than that of the Church. How does one respond to such ignorance of the Scriptures and the Church’s teachings.

First, we must consider the fact that the Church does not condemn homosexuals. The Church teaches the fact that homosexual “acts are intrinsically disordered.” Therefore condoning the union of two people of the same sex sets the stage for sinful behavior and destroys the very essence of the marital bond intended by God.

It is the responsibility of every Christian to stand up for the truth. We cannot ignore sin in our society. To ignore sin sets us up for grave danger. My dear friends, let us do all in our power to protect and defend the most sacred bond that God Himself gave to husband and wife. "He created them male and female and said, go forth and multiply."

God love you,
Fr. Finelli

 

 

The Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary

 

Other than the birthday of Our Lord on December 25, the Church celebrates only two other birthdays. One is the Feast of St. John the Baptist who was the precursor of Our Lord and the other is the birthday of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Queen of All Saints. Normally we celebrate the day that the saints went to eternal life, the day that they were born into eternal life in the kingdom. But it is different with Mary.

 

The feast of her nativity has been celebrated since the sixth century. It actually started in the East and spread to the West through some Eastern monks who were visiting Rome. From there it developed and spread pretty quickly throughout the entire Catholic Church.

 

Of course, only God knows the exact day on which the Blessed Mother was born. The day of September 8 was chosen because it was the first day of the Byzantine Calendar, and from this came the date of the Feast of the Immaculate Conception which is nine months prior to this on December 8.  In the same pattern, we have the birth of Our Lord on December 25 and then the Annunciation nine months before on March 25. Just as normal pregnancy is nine months, so, too, do nine months elapse between the conceptions of Our Lord and His Mother and their births. Why does the Church schedule these feasts nine months apart? To bring these feasts into our daily lives. To celebrate not only the thoughts of the past or the anticipation of heaven but to make present that, in our daily walk, we are walking as well with Jesus, Mary, and the saints.

 

When we celebrate the birth of Our Lord, it's the greatest feast because we celebrate the birth of our salvation. But the Feast of the Nativity of the Blessed Mother is also an important feast and one of great joy because she's the one who was chosen for Our Lord and for us. She was predestined by God, that is she was called by God, chosen for a special role in salvation. We are all predestined in this sense, as we are all called to be faithful to the Gospel. Our Lady was called to be that one who would be the Christ-bearer. Imagine that! The Mother who was made by her Son. Imagine if we could make our own mother. How would we make our mother? We'd give her all the virtues and gifts we could give her. So, before He was conceived in the womb, before He became flesh, the Second Person of the Blessed Trinity made His Mother. He created her in all perfection. He gave her the greatest gifts and the greatest virtues, and she was then given the choice. She responded with full heart.

 

Mary's life is really summarized in that great prayer we call the Magnificat. "My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord." Everything about Mary and about her life, about her Immaculate Conception, about her graces and virtues, go back to Her Son. She sings, "My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord" because she is the perfect creation of Our Lord Jesus Christ. She is the perfect creation of the Father and the Holy Spirit. Thus she is that model for each of us, the image of the perfect Christian. God puts forth the grace and she responds to that grace, yet turns her praise not to herself but to her God. So we give thanks for the birth of the Blessed Mother because she is not only the Mother of God but she is also our Mother. She shows us the way to her Son.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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The Precepts of the Church

"The precepts of the Church are set in the context of a moral life bound to and nourished by liturgical life.  The obligatory character of these positive laws decreed by the pastoral authorities is meant to guarantee to the faithful the indispensable minimum in the spirit of prayer and moral effort, in the growth in love of God and neighbor:
 
 The precepts of the Church are:
         1. "You shall attend Mass on Sundays and holy days of obligation.
         2. You shall confess your sins at least once a year.
         3. You shall humbly receive your Creator in Holy Communion at least during the Easter season.
         4. You shall keep holy the holy days of obligation.
         5. You shall observe the prescribed days of fasting and abstinence.
         The faithful also have the duty of providing for the material needs of the Church, each according to his abilities  (Catechism of the Catholic Church 2041-2043)"
 
We all remember the story of the rich young man who came to Jesus and asked what he had to do to be saved.  He was a good person who lived the commandments.  Yet Jesus tried to stretch him, push him forth to do more.  Jesus said that, if he wanted to be perfect, he should sell everything he owned and give it to the poor.  With that the young man went away sad.
 
Many people want to know the bare minimum needed to go to heaven.  "What do I have to do to get to heaven?"  Or in another way, "How little can I get away with doing and still get to heaven?"  Imagine such an attitude!  I just can not comprehend that way of thinking.  How can we talk of how much or how little we "have to do" to get into heaven?  I just can’t picture Jesus speaking in those terms.
 
The precepts of the Church are set in the context of "bare minimum".  Yet God has so much more for us if we are willing to stretch our hearts and minds.  For Jesus, it is not enough to go to Mass on Sunday and Holy Days; it is not enough to live the commandments and precepts of the Church.  Our Lord wants us to become holy, to desire a deep personal relationship with Him and work on that relationship in our daily lives.

God love you,
Fr. Finelli

 

AUGUST REFLECTIONS

 

Chosen by the Lord

 

In the sixteenth chapter of Ezekiel, there is a passage about a child who is rejected and left in the desert, and finally accepted who then becomes a prostitute and is accepted again. It sounds, at first, like a harsh reading. But the story is really that of God's relationship with Israel. Israel was not a chosen people until God chose her to be his own. The story is the sign of a nuptial bond with the Israelites. God chose Israel out of her sinfulness as a people who were really pagan, who worshipped false gods. But God raised them up to be a covenant people but still they turned away from the Lord and His covenant.

 

That's the story of all of us because we were chosen by the Lord. We weren't worthy of the Lord and His grace. The great thing about this story is that it's not that Israel or you and I have chosen the Lord. Even the gift and grace that we have, the desire to chose the Lord, even the gift and grace that we welcome Him into our lives and have the desire for the sacraments -- even those graces come from God and His freely given love. Even the greatest saint in the world, the greatest saint in all history, is because of the Lord's gifts to that saint who responded to those gifts.

 

Even in our sins and our unfaithfulness, God does not break His covenant. The Lord is faithful. He continually showers His graces upon us, looking for our response and seeking our salvation just as the bridegroom seeks the bride. We are that bride, the bride of Christ by covenant. We are brought into union with the Lord Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit and God the Father. He calls us to deeper fidelity each and every day. God never rejects His eternal covenant. He continues to call us.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

 

Heaven and Hell

Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a net thrown into the sea, which collects fish of every kind. When it is full they haul it ashore and sit down to put what is good into buckets. What is bad they throw away. Thus it will be at the end of the age. The angels will go out and separate the wicked from the righteous and throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.  

Matthew 12: 47-50 

Jesus talks about the end time, about heaven and other things. He said that the fisherman, when he drags his net, brings in all sorts of things. We know that this is the case with fishermen. They bring in trash, tires, and you name it as well as fish. Then they have to sort it all out. This is what Jesus speaks of in one of his parables. At the end of time, the Lord will separate the good from the bad and the wicked from the holy. He tells us that there IS heaven. The kingdom of heaven is like, He says. He tells us that the bad things will be thrown into the fire to be burned. It's a reminder to all people that there is a place called hell. There is also a place called heaven. We are all going to be judged at the end of our lives. We will all come before the judgment seat of God. 

Our world needs to be reminded, I think, that there is a place called hell. Even though you might live thinking, "Do whatever you feel like. If it feels good, do it," our Lord Jesus says, "No!" We have to live according to His ways and teachings and law so that we can be with Him in heaven. 

God love you,

Father Finelli


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JULY REFLECTIONS

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Something Greater Than the Temple

Jesus said, "There is something greater than the temple here." What's greater than the temple? What could have been greater than the temple for the Pharisees and the scribes? What could have been greater than the temple for Our Lord and His apostles? Well, our Lord is saying that He is greater than the temple. He is the new temple. He is reminding us that He has come to give us a new faith, a new temple, a new goal. He wasn't focusing so much on them eating the grain on the Sabbath. He was coming to proclaim to them that He is the new Moses, the new giver of the law. He tells us something pretty interesting. "I desire mercy, not sacrifice." Some people say, "Oh, see that. We don't have to sacrifice. We don't have to do penance." No. He is saying that, "The old sacrifice of the lambs in the temple is not needed any more. There's a new sacrifice. It's the sacrifice that I'll bring about on the cross. It's the sacrifice of the new temple." Our sacrifice. The one sacrifice of Christ that we celebrate during the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass because it's made present here. It's not a new sacrifice because, if this were a new sacrifice, it wouldn't be the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. He renews the sacrifice daily at every Mass throughout the world. 

So what is that mercy He desires? It's the desire that, through this sacrifice on the cross, through this sacrifice that's renewed on the altar, He brings us His mercy. Because He brings us His mercy, you and I are called to be merciful to others. The Pharisees were not merciful. They were always judging others because they were so rigid and locked into their law that they forgot about the Spirit. I'm not saying that we have to throw away the Law, but Jesus renews the law. It's the law of love. He brings about a new way to live the law. He didn't do away with the Old Law. He just deepened and strengthened the covenant because when we live the law with love, it's a whole different thing. When you live the law out of rigidity like the Pharisees did, there is no bending, no way of bringing life. But Jesus brings the law of love. He brings life because He is the temple, He is the Church. Jesus is the Church. Where there is no Jesus, there is no Church. Because we have Jesus in the sacrament of the altar, this is the Church.

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Mary Magdalene: Called to Be a Lover of God

People think of St. Mary Magdalene and often think of the prostitute, the woman from whom Jesus cast seven devils. But I think there is a different perspective to consider Mary Magdalene. Even though she had a former way of life, she was one who was touched by Jesus. She was changed forever and never went back. Jesus touched her life and she fell in love, not in the way of that heretical Dan Brown book The DaVinci Code or the way of the Gnostic Gospel of Thomas, but a pure and holy love that changed her life because she knew that it was her God coming to save her. The Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the Living God, came into her life and touched her life and she was never the same.

 

"I saw him who my heart loves," it says it the Song of Songs. It's a person chasing after the one he or she loves. And that is really how we are called to be. The only difference between Mary and most other people, most of us included, probably, is that Jesus touched her life and she never went back to her old ways. She changed completely. She gave her heart completely to the Lord. You and I--I am not saying you necessarily, not picking out any particular person--usually the human trait is that we open up to the Lord and then we take a step backwards. That's really life, life's struggle of seeking the Lord. What happened with Mary was that, when Jesus met her as a prostitute, He didn't look at her as a prostitute or a sinner or a person filled with demons. He looked at her as someone He was calling to be a great saint. I think that is what Jesus does when He looks at us. He doesn't necessarily look at our sins. He looks at us and He says, "This is what I expect of you if only you will accept it." She accepted it with all her heart, soul, and being and she was transformed. Every time I think of Mary Magdalene now, I think of the Passion of Christ, how Jesus changed her life. She was always seeking Him. She was Mary at the cross, reaching out to Him, standing by the cross. That is where her power came from, the cross. Pious tradition tells us that, after the crucifixion, the apostles didn't know what to do, but Mary Magdalene went off and became a hermit to spend her time in contemplation and prayer. She had found the one she loved and she never left Him. He left her for a time, but she remained with Him.

 

We, like her, are called to be lovers of the Lord in whatever state of life we are. If we are connected with the Lord Jesus, we will understand that He is madly in love with us and that He calls us to be madly in love with Him. So that reading from the Song of Songs isn't only one way. We are seeking Him but He is seeking us. He sees what we are called to be--great saints of Jesus Christ.

 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Lambs in the Midst of Wolves 

"Behold, I am sending you like sheep into the midst of wolves." (Matthew 10:16) 

How can a sheep survive in the midst of wolves? In reality, a sheep couldn't survive in the midst of wolves. If you let a sheep out into the woods on its own, shortly thereafter it would be killed and eaten by the wolves. But Jesus tells us how the sheep are to survive among the wolves. You have to be a shrewd as serpents but as simple as doves.   

He says that "the Spirit of Your Father will be speaking through you." We need to depend on our heavenly Father. He is like a shepherd tending His sheep. In reality, Jesus was not only speaking to the apostles but to Christians of all times. If you are going to be faithful to Jesus, if you are going to be faithful to the Gospel, you aren't going to be liked. There will always be people who will oppose you--outside, inside, here and there, everywhere you turn.  

In fact, you see that today with the proclamation of the Gospel. Even where the Holy Father goes, he is often attacked. I remember when Pope John Paul II held an audience in the Netherlands for the first time, people were throwing stones at him. They thought there would be 100,000 people present and there were only a hundred. How sad that is. But it must be a reminder to us that we can never compromise when it comes to faith, morals, and the doctrines of the Church. We can never compromise. We have to always stand firm because we stand with the Lord and the Lord will protect us. 

The Gospel speaking about sheep in the midst of wolves just happened to fall on the feast of Blessed Kateri Tekawitha, Her mother was an Algonquin Indian, who was a Christian and she was married to a chief who was not a Christian. Then her parents and brother died of smallpox and her father's brother, who hated Christians, became the next chief. And she began to be persecuted. Kateri withstood this for quite a while but, at the age of 19, she decided to run for her life. She walked 200 miles from New York up to Montreal where she went to an area where there was a Christian tribe of Indians. She lived her life devoted to Christ. She was not attractive because she also had small pox which disfigured her face. She was half blind. She suffered a great deal, but she remained faithful to Christ in good times and bad. In fact, following the precepts of the Church, she was very strict with her faith. She would not work on Sundays and, because of that, every Sunday she went without food because the Indians had a law that, if you did not work, you did not eat. What a great example of someone who wasn't Christian, who converted to the faith, and who persevered. I hope that some day she will go from being blessed to being raised to the altar of God. 

If you ever have the opportunity to go to Auriesville, New York, there is a shrine where Kateri was born and there is also a shrine to the North American martyrs. Those were Jesuit priests who were tortured and suffered great indignities because of their faith. In fact, there is a whole display there which says that sometimes the Indians would pull out the priest's nails and chew their fingers because they knew that, without their hands, the priests could not celebrate Mass. Again, sheep going among the wolves. But how often they would return to France (they had come from France as missionaries) and would recover but would go back to give their lives for the love of Christ. 

They are great examples for us living in a world that is not too Christian today. We have these examples of Kateri and the priests who worked with her who were faithful to Christ. They give us the inspiration to be faithful to Christ as well. 

God love you,

Father Finelli

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Podcasting: Even the Pope Listens

Earlier this year, when Pope Benedict XVI visited Vatican Radio to mark the station's 75 anniversary, he paid a great testimony to the Church's presence in communication. The Church has always been at the forefront of mass communication for the proclamation of the Gospel. Today, the Church uses every available means of communication. Radio, television, internet, and podcasting are all part of the Church's ministry. 

During the Holy Father's visit to Vatican Radio, the staff wanted to mark the occasion by presenting him with a special gift. They decided on a brand new, white, 2 gigabyte iPod Nano. The iPod was preloaded with a sampling of the radio's programming in three languages -- English, German, and Italian. The iPod was also loaded with a number of classical music compositions. They had the back of the iPod engraved in Italian with the words, "To His Holiness, Benedict XVI." Pope Benedict was impressed and, in his words of thanksgiving, he said, "Computer technology is the future." 

It is awesome to see that our Holy Father is a man in touch with realities and needs of our time. I am sure Pope Benedict will enjoy listening to the iPod in his walks around the Vatican Gardens. It makes me wonder. Never do you know who is listening to your podcast. 

There are so many good Catholc podcasts available to help people learn more about our Faith. Here is the link for Vatican Radio.  www.VaticanRadio.org  In addition, Father David Engo, who has preached often at our parish here in Tiverton and who is a Spiritual Advisor to the Confraternity of Penitents, now has a podcast. It's on this link: www.sjy.org/church/homily.asp

My own podcast is at http://www.ipadre.net/ Just click it! 

God love you,

Father Finelli

 

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Springtime of Faith

 

We've just celebrated the Solemnity of Saints Peter and Paul. Both were apostles of Our Lord who died for the Church. There's an old saying, "The blood of the martyrs is the seed of faith." Any time you tell a kid not to do something, what happens? He wants to do it more. When the faith is put down, it grows, not only because it's put down but because it is watered with the grace of God. So any time you try to destroy something, if it's from God, it's going to grow even more strongly and surely.

 

In the Book of Acts, we read an awesome story. We hear about the death of the apostle St. James and then we hear about St. Peter in chains. St. Peter was in chains more than once. If you go to Rome, you can go to the Church of St. Peter in Chains. When you see those chains, you realize that they were not like the chains you use to tie your dog outside. They are huge, heavy chains. The links are about a foot long and six inches wide. Heavy chains. When Peter was chained, it was obvious that they intended to put him to death because he wasn't just chained to a wall. He was also chained to two guards, one on his right and one on his left.

 

The interesting thing about this story is that the early Church was not put off by this. They didn't ask, "How are we going to deal with this? The Pope has been arrested! What are we going to do? It's hopeless!" No. What did they do? They turned to prayer. They trusted in the Lord, and the Lord answered their prayer in a powerful way. The chains were let loose even though there were guards at Peter's side, even though there were guards all over the place. Peter walked out of doors and then, finally getting out, realized it wasn't a dream!  Imagine that. You are in heavy chains and heavily guarded. When you are free, you are going to think that it's a dream because it even seems like a dream that you are chained there in the first place! But God freed him.

 

It's a reminder to all of us to pray for our Pope, bishops, and priests, for our leaders. It's not hopeless. You see the crises in the Church today, scandals. There are good priests and bad priests, good bishops and bad bishops. Thank God we have a good Pope. But pray for the Church in these difficult times because the Lord has good plans. Always God's plans are better than ours. When the Church goes down, there's always hope for a brighter future. I think our future is going to be really bright. We are beginning to see things that Pope John Paul II talked about. He talked about the "new springtime" of the Church. We have vocations coming forth now. We went through a time when vocations seemed to die, but vocations are coming forth in our country but especially in Africa and India where they have so many vocations that they don't have enough seminaries to take them all. So, we are in the beginning of that "springtime of faith" talked about by Pope John Paul II. These things only come about by prayer.

 

So, remembering that Saints Peter and Paul were two men called by God to serve the Church, we can ask, "Who does God have in store to serve the Church today?" Look at Paul. He was hopeless. He was a killer of Christians, but look what God did through him. Look at St. Peter. He denied Christ three times, and look how Christ called him to be the head of the Church. So let us pray that God might raise up many holy vocations. We don't know where they might come from. They could come from those executives out there who are living away from God. They could come from those who persecute the Church today. Maybe they will be the great priests of the future.

 

God love you,

Father Finellil

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JUNE REFLECTIONS

The Covenant That Sets Us Apart 

In the Old Testament, God calls His people out of Egypt to bring them forth into a covenant, into a relationship. He wants to make them a people. What makes them a people?  The Lord says, "If you live My law, you will peculiarly my own."  A people who are different, a people set aside for God. That's what makes us different from the rest of the world. You and I live the teachings of Christ in His Church. If you and I don't live the teachings of Christ in the Church, then we are no different than the pagans really.  As Jesus said, in the Gospel, "What makes us different from the pagans?  The pagans love one another.  They love their friends.  We love our friends, too, so we are just like everybody else."  But if we live the teachings of Christ and His Church, we are different. We are set apart. 

To bring us into covenant, there are two things that God did with the Israelite people. He gave them a law to live.  That made them different from everyone else. That set them apart, because the pagans lived as the pagans lived, but God's people first and foremost respected God.  They set apart His day. They respected one another.  They treated one another with dignity. That's what the Lord God does. That's what the teachings and commandments of the Church do. First of all, we respect Almighty God. We respect His day, His call, His way of life for us. We also respect one another.  We respect not only one another but every human being, every person, because all people, from the moment of their conception until natural death, are created in the image of Almighty God. 

The second thing that God did is, because they accepted His call to live the life, He gave them a way to worship Him which really set them apart because the pagans worshipped everything that there was--trees and rocks and volcanoes and they sacrificed people to these things.  The Jews sacrificed to the Lord, the One God, Who gave them a law to live and a law that said they were to no longer sacrifice people but an animal which represented their sins, offering their sins, their sacrifices to God.  The Lord confirmed that and renewed that for us because we no longer sacrifice an animal, a lamb. Rather Jesus, the Son, on our behalf sacrifices Himself, the Lamb of God. So every time we are at Mass, the covenant is renewed.  At the second part of the Consecration, at the Consecration of the Precious Blood, the priest says, "This is the new and everlasting covenant in My Blood."  The Lamb of God, the Lamb of the Father, is sacrificed on this altar, the same sacrifice as on Calvary 2000 years ago, not a new sacrifice. It's renewed here for us so that the sacrifice is made present in all time, in all people, all over the world. That is what sets us apart.

We come to worship because we are living as He told us to live. He makes us His chosen people. We are living the covenant because the Lamb is sacrificed and we eat the Flesh and Blood of the Lamb. How awesome that is! That we are called and set apart by the Lord, to be His chosen people, not just by words, not just by baptism, but that baptism makes it part of our life, by making the covenant part of our lives by worshipping the Lamb.

God love you.

Father Finelli

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Take Time for Silence

Then the LORD said, "Go outside and stand on the mountain before the LORD; the LORD will be passing by." A strong and heavy wind was rending the mountains and crushing rocks before the LORD--but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake--but the LORD was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake there was fire--but the LORD was not in the fire. After the fire there was a tiny whispering sound. When he heard this, Elijah hid his face in his cloak and went and stood at the entrance of the cave. A voice said to him, "Elijah, why are you here?" (1 Kings 19:11-13)

People now seem to be hunting for God. They look in so many different places. Sometimes you see these televangelists on TV and it seems that the more intense they look and the louder they preach, they seem to think that the Lord's going to come because of that. But I think that the Lord always comes in silence.

If you look at the above incident in the life of Elijah, when Elijah heard a great noise, a boom, a loud response, an earthquake, Elijah expected it to be the Lord, but it wasn't. The Lord came in silence. He came in quiet. When we consider this, we can see that when God sent His only Son, He didn't come with any trumpets or drums. He came in the silence of Nazareth at the Annunciation and the quiet of Bethlehem at His birth. He was born in a stable where everybody least expected Him to come.

When I was at a site of reported apparitions a week ago, actually a week ago on Thursday night, on June 8, there was an apparition and many of the priests were invited to it, by special invitation only. A monsignor who traveled with us and I were invited into the seer's house. We went into this little room, maybe the size of half the sacristy, and we sat there and prayed the joyful and sorrowful mysteries of the Rosary and then the Chaplet for Peace which is seven Our Fathers, Hail Mary's, and Glory Be's together and the Apostles' Creed. And then Our Lady came in silence. At the end of that apparition, I felt the deepest peace I've ever felt in my life. I've felt peace before, but this was the deepest peace, so deep that I can't describe it. I just wanted to sit there and not move, but finally our silence was disturbed by the translator who said, "All right. Go out now."

That's where we find the peace of God, in silence and quiet. That's why it's so important that, in church, we foster a spirit of silence before and after Mass, so people who want to sit in the presence of God can let God enter the depths of their soul, mind, and body because, when you let the peace of God into your soul, it doesn't just affect your soul. God's relationship with us affects our bodies, too. The effects are far reaching. Because we are created body and soul, God affects the whole person who we are. Whenever you have a spiritual experience of the Lord, you may have an emotional experience, too. God will affect your emotions. So this is why we, as people of God, must take time for silence, time for prayer when we don't say or do or look at anything but we just close our eyes and be with God. I rather be before the Blessed Sacrament, push everything out, and be with Him. It takes time to learn to do this, and we can't expect that we just close our eyes and, whoosh, God is there. No, we have to get used to this prayer of silence. We have noise in our lives, so we have to get used to the experience of silence in our daily lives. Let's take some quiet time many times during the day. We can't only take quiet time when we come to Mass. Take quiet time when we eat lunch, before and after we eat. We need to take quiet time in the evening before we go to sleep, to just be with the Lord.

I remember a priest whom I knew who had cancer. As part of his therapy, every day he would gaze at the crucifix and sit in silence and just gaze upon the Lord. And he found His peace in silence. Jesus came in Bethlehem in silence, as the Lord came to Elijah in the silence, as we contemplate the silence of the Eucharist, let us make time for silence in our lives.

God love you,
Father Finelli
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Sharing Our Faith Experiences

No matter how much we know about our faith, the doctrines and teachings of the Church, it's also important that we know an experience of faith, that we know that the Lord is alive. In the New Testament, we learn about Apollos who was an eloquent speaker. He knew the teachings of the Jews and of Scripture. He knew about and believed in Jesus. And we see that Priscella and Aquilla came to him to share their faith with him.

Sometimes we think, "I don't have enough knowledge about the faith or about Scripture to share with other people." But sometimes we need to just share our experiences of the Lord's Presence in our lives. What has God done for you in your life? What has God done for me in my life? We all have a rich abundance of experiences that might help someone to have a deeper faith, that might help someone who is having difficulties in their faith, if they hear one of our faith stories about what God has done in us. I can share with a young man my experiences, for example, my difficulties while I was going to study for the priesthood and had doubts about whether I should go into the seminary. My faith experience of what Jesus did in my life might help someone else.

We all have experiences like that, of how God works when we are going through a difficulty or a trial in our life. We see that God has come through for us. We thought we were all alone and then, all of a sudden, you look back and you say, "Wow! This is what God did in my life. He's alive. He's well." That's what we need to hear. Like Priscella and Aquilla, we need to share our faith with people who might not believe or who have doubts. Share the faith with one another. It's a great thing when you can gather together with friends and you can talk about your faith. Sometimes we are afraid to share our faith because we think it's too personal or too intimate. But it really builds other people up. Sometimes at gatherings we end up gossiping or talking about stupid things that are really not important to life. But if we share the gift of our faith, we might not realize how important that is, to build one another up and help others who might be going through struggles and trials. We all have that gift to give one another. We may not have a doctorate in theology. We may not have any theology at all. We just have a deep love for Christ and so we can show to others what God is doing for us.

God love you,
Father Finelli
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Come, Holy Spirit!

While Apollos was in Corinth, Paul traveled through the interior of the country and came (down) to Ephesus where he found some disciples. He said to them, "Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you became believers?" They answered him, "We have never even heard that there is a Holy Spirit." He said, "How were you baptized?" They replied, "With the baptism of John." Paul then said, "John baptized with a baptism of repentance, telling the people to believe in the one who was to come after him, that is, in Jesus." When they heard this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. And when Paul laid (his) hands on them, the Holy Spirit came upon them, and they spoke in tongues and prophesied. Altogether there were about twelve men. (Acts 19:1-7)

In this reading, Paul was asking if the believers had received the Holy Spirit and they said, "We don't even know that there is a Holy Spirit." It sounds like some people in the Church today. "The Holy Spirit? The Holy Spirit is just for charismatics. The gifts of the Holy Spirit are just for the charismatics." So people say. But how untrue that is! The Lord depends on each one of us to use the gifts He has given us, to be moved by the Holy Spirit to touch the world in which we live. There is no way that this world, in the mess it is, is going to be evangelized without the power of the Holy Spirit working in the Church. There is no way that the world is going to change unless you and I, like the apostles, are animated by the Holy Spirit. Now you don't have to run around and pray in tongues. I believe in all of those gifts, all spoken of in the Acts of the Apostles--prophecy, tongues, healings, deliverance, exorcism, you name it--all those gifts are given to the Church even today. But the most important gifts are those that help us to grow in holiness. We need the Holy Spirit to help us to grow in holiness.

Our Lady said, through Father Gobbi, that the world, the Church, is being prepared for a new and second Pentecost. We really need to pray for that. We need the power of the Holy Spirit to come upon the earth and upon the Church in a special way, to transform the Church. The Church is in a big mess now. There is confusion everywhere you turn. One says one thing, another says another thing. Things that are said by the Pope are blatantly ignored. We need the Holy Spirit because the Holy Spirit is the One Who brings unity, the "glue" Who cements each of us together. So as we celebrate the Feast of Pentecost, let us pray in a more intense way for our parish family, for ourselves, for the Church throughout the world, that the Holy Spirit will set alive within us the gifts He's already given.

We have the Holy Spirit. Sometimes we hear the Pentecostals or different denominations within the Protestant Church say, "Are you born again? Do you have the Holy Spirit?" Some Catholics seem to not know. Of course we do! We were baptized. We were confirmed. We have the gift of the Holy Spirit. Talk about gifts. We have the Giver! We received those gifts in baptism and confirmation. Whatever gifts He wants to use, all we have to do is pray that He frees us and that we are willing to let Him move in our lives. So each and every day we should pray, "Come. Holy Spirit! Use me in the way that You see fit, for my own conversion and transformation to become holy as God wants me to become holy but also for the conversion of the world."

God love you,

Father Finelli

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MAY REFLECTIONS

Foretaste of Glory

Starting with the Old Testament, whenever God was building up His people, building a new nation, He uses the image of a woman in labor. If you look at Church history, whenever the Church suffered the most, shortly thereafter came a new rebirth, a new life in the Church. It always comes through suffering. Any woman who has had a child knows the suffering during actual labor. The Church can't give birth through C-section. It has to come through natural means. In fact, the early Christians and the Fathers of the Church always said, "The blood of the martyrs is the seed of faith."

Any time there is suffering in the Church, it bears fruit. The Evangelist John tells us that, in the midst of that suffering, in any suffering that we go through as a Church or as ourselves for Christ, there will come fruit. That fruit is joy in our future resurrection. That joy is when we see Christ face to faith. It is a joy that can never be taken away. That is what we really long for. Our whole pilgrimage of life is journeying to see Christ, going to His kingdom, being in heaven for all eternity with Our Lord. That is why we have processions at Mass. The priest and the altar servers walk in at Mass. They walk out again in procession. We have processions with the gifts because we are processing toward Christ and Christ is coming toward us. In a real way, as we celebrate Liturgy, we get a taste of our future glory. We walk toward Christ and receive Him in Holy Communion, and we long for that day when we will see Him face to face in His Kingdom. So let us long for the day when Jesus will come to us. The Eucharist is that intimate union but not what we will have in the future. It is a foretaste of the future glory that we will have forever in His Kingdom.

God love you,
Father Finelli

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Dogma vs. Discipline: Thoughts on Acts 15

In the Acts of the Apostles, the early Church shows the teaching authority given it by Jesus, the true Shepherd of the flock. There was the dispute of circumcision, and the apostles gathered with Peter at the Council of Jerusalem and made two decisions. One dogmatic decision (what we believe to be essential to the life of faith) and a pastoral decision, a disciplinary decision.

First, they had a dogmatic teaching which showed that they didn't go with everything Moses taught. New Christians who were not Jewish didn't have to be circumcised. Circumcision isn't necessary for salvation, but faith in Jesus Christ is. Anybody who embraced the Catholic faith, the Christian faith, didn't have to be circumcised.

Then a disciplinary decision. Disciplinary decisions can change, but dogma can't. Out of respect for the Jews, they met certain dietary requirements because they didn't want to upset others because so many of the first Christians were Jews. They came from the Jewish faith.

Today there are also disciplinary teachings and dogmatic teachings of the Church. Disciplinary can change. We now only have to fast from food and drink, except for water or medicine, for one hour before we receive our Lord in the Eucharist. Years ago it was from midnight on, and, even before that, it was almost twenty-four hours of fasting before you received Holy Communion. That's a disciplinary thing. Tomorrow the Pope and bishops could gather and decide that it be changed to three hours or twenty-four hours again, but that's disciplinary changes.

As for matters of faith and doctrine like the Eucharist, the Church teaches that we believe in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist--Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity. So the Pope and bishops can't gather and agree to say that the Lord is not truly present in the Eucharist--it's just a family gathering and we are here for a love fest. We can't do that. There is dogma and there is disciplinary.

They taught that they believed right from the beginning of the Church that it wasn't only their decision but that they were guided by the Holy Spirit.

‘It is the decision of the Holy Spirit and of us not to place on you any burden beyond these necessities, namely, to abstain from meat sacrificed to idols, from blood, from meats of strangled animals, and from unlawful marriage.
If you keep free of these, you will be doing what is right. Farewell.’” (Acts 15: 28-29)

When the bishops teach in union with Peter, the chief shepherd of the flock, the vicar of Christ, they teach what the Holy Spirit wants us to know and how He wants us to respond. The same with discipline. Discipline can change. For this time and this place, it's important that we don't have to abstain from meat every Friday but only during Lent or at special times. But maybe down the road, there will be something more important that will be a discipline. But doctrine is that faithful, apostolic teaching that comes to us from the apostles. What a gift! Not only does Jesus teach us through the apostles but He shows us that apostolic authority right from the beginning of the Church in Acts 15.

God love you,
Father Finelli

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Where Do You Want to Go?

Jesus shows us the way to the Father. The early Christians were known, not as Christians, but as "The Way." Jesus says, "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life." What is that Way?

The Way is that Jesus taught how we need to live. He taught us all the precepts, how to have courage, how to stand for the truth, and what will get us to the kingdom. Scripture scholars say that He probably stated that He was the Way at the Last Supper or around that time. It would make sense. "Do not let your hearts be troubled. I am headed to the cross, but there is something greater than that. In My Father's house, there is greater than this life. It's called the Kingdom of Heaven."

But the apostles still don't understand. Thomas was very honest. When he was with the apostles, he said, "I won't believe unless I stick my fingers through the nail marks in His hands and my hand in His side, unless I see Him in the flesh." And in another Gospel passage, he says, "We don't know where You are going, Lord. How can we know how to get there?" Jesus makes it clear. "I am the Way."

In a real sense, the Lord says to the apostles, "Where do you want to go?" He says to us, "Where do you want to go?" He says to the entire world, "Where do you want to go?" That answer for us ought to be, "I want to go to heaven. I want eternal life." "Well, if you want that," Jesus says, "I am the Way. I show you how to live. I show you the moral precepts. I show you that I am Who Am. I am God. I am the only way to the Father."

In fact, there would be no way for us to come to know the truth of who God the Father is except for the One Who is divine who is teaching us the Way. And that One is our Lord Jesus Christ. Imagine that. If Jesus had not come, we would know there is a God. In fact, most people who are not Christians say there is a god. Even pantheists and pagans and the Romans believed there was a god or many gods. So by nature and by studying and looking around us, we can say there is a God, but we only know more in depth Who this God is by direct revelation. That is Our Lord Jesus Christ. He is the Way. He is the map. He says, "Where to you want to go? I'll give you the Map. I am the Map. I am the Way and the Truth and I will lead you to the most important thing you could have, the Kingdom of Heaven. It's My Father's house."

Let us give thanks to God for He shows us the Way. The world needs to know Jesus Christ. The world is going one way--we know where it is going and it's not to the Father's house--it's to someone else's house. The world is going "down" at a fast rate, but the One Who can save it is Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ is the only way to the Father. There are many people nowadays who say that we can't evangelize the Jewish people because they have the covenant. Well, if their covenant is still valid, then we don't need Jesus Christ. Jesus is the only Way to the Father. And anyone who is saved--Jew, Muslim, Hindu, Christian, some Indian on some island somewhere who still uses a bow and arrow--is only saved through Jesus Christ. That means that even the person who might not personally know Jesus Christ, who might never have heard of Him and accepted Him as true God and true Man, the Savior of the world, will be saved because they live the truth to the best of their ability. If they had known Jesus, they would have accepted Him as the true God, the Savior of the world. They find salvation through Him.

God love you,
Father Finelli

 

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Jesus, the Good Shepherd

We are all familiar with the image of Jesus as the Good Shepherd. The shepherd is one who cares for and tends the sheep. But Jesus also makes a distinction between a shepherd and a hired hand. A shepherd always has the sheep in his concern, always watching out for the sheep and looking out to make sure that the sheep are not eaten by the wolf. The shepherd takes time with the sheep. Basically the life of the shepherd is living with the sheep. Shepherds live on a mountain with the sheep. They eat and sleep there and spend their time with the sheep. Shepherds are very solitary people.

I remember that, in Medjugorge, I would always see this old shepherdess who didn't want to be bothered with you. She would shoo you away when you went by her. If you would watch her at five thirty in the morning, she'd be out there with the sheep. If one of the sheep would decide to wander off, she'd either take her little staff and tap it on a rock or give a whistle or say a word and the sheep would all come running and gather around her, because the sheep know the shepherd's voice.

Jesus talks about the hired hand, who is one who is paid to work with the shepherd. So the hired hand doesn't really care about the sheep. All he cares about is collecting his money at the end of the day, so he sees the wolf coming and he runs away because he doesn't want to be eaten by the wolf. He does not want the wolf to attack him. He doesn't really care if the sheep go off, but the shepherd does.

The shepherd has concern for the sheep. The sheep are really in his heart. He has this desire to keep the sheep safe. Jesus tells us, "I am the Good Shepherd." Jesus tells us, "I lay down My life for My sheep." Jesus is called the "Lamb of God" because He associates with His sheep. "I lay down My life for My sheep." He laid down His life, suffered, went through the Passion, was crucified, in place of the sheep. He became one of the sheep so the sheep didn't have to go to the slaughter. He took our place. During the Mass, the priest raises the Host and says, "Behold the Lamb of God." He became one like us in all things but sin, a Shepherd Who takes the place of the sheep so that the sheep don't suffer and lose eternal life. They gain life when the Shepherd dies.

When Jesus left this life, He knew that we would be scattered. He said, "When the Shepherd is stricken, the sheep will be scattered." Jesus didn't want us to lose our way so He left us a shepherd. He appointed Peter. We all know that story from the Gospels where Jesus turns to Peter and says, "Peter, do you love Me?' Three times. "Peter, do you love Me? . . . Feed My lambs." "Peter, do you love Me? . . . Tend My sheep." And the last time, He says, in effect "Peter, do you REALLY love Me?" I can see Peter getting frustrated. "Come on, Lord. I've already told You twice that I love You. I wouldn't be hanging out with You if I didn't love You." "Feed my sheep." So Jesus gave the Church a shepherd to watch over and guard the flock, to guide the Church, to lead, guide, protect, and defend us, to keep us away from the wolves in a spiritual sense and from all those things that would take us away from the Chief Shepherd, the Good Shepherd, the Lord Jesus Christ. He gave us the ministry of Peter to be a shepherd and guardian of the faith, to keep us safe from the teachings that would lead us away from the Lord and to lead us to the Lord.

There are three areas in which the shepherd, Peter, the Pope, leads the flock. First and foremost, by teaching. He is to give us a good understanding of what Jesus said in the Scriptures, what the Scriptures teach about Jesus guarding and protecting the teachings of the Church, leading us in the ways of truth. These are leading in the ways of teaching. The second is in encouraging. We are in this world that is very discouraging at times, but remember the words of Pope John Paul II when he first became pope. The first words he said were, "Be not afraid." Be not afraid of a world that is filled with war, hatred, and violence. Be not afraid when difficulties come into your life. Be not afraid. The shepherd is there to encourage, strengthen, and guide. And finally the shepherd is there to correct. We saw that actually last week. The Church in China has two Catholic Churches. There is the "Official" Catholic Church that doesn't recognize the Pope and then there is the "Underground" Church that is faithful to the Pope. Well, last week the "Official" Church of China decided to ordain two bishops without the direction of the Pope so the Pope excommunicated them. Sometimes people hear that word, "excommunication" and they think horrible things. "He's doing that to punish." But actually excommunication is to lead back to the fold, to lead back to Christ, to that unity of the Church that the Good Shepherd is called to protect.

So as we focus on the Good Shepherd, the Lord Jesus Christ, let us pray for our Holy Father Pope Benedict who is the good shepherd until the Lord comes again, until we go into the Kingdom. The Pope is to lead us, guide us, strengthen us, encourage us. Let us pray for all bishops and priests who are called to shepherd God's people and to lead them to a deeper union with the Church and with Christ. Let us ask that, together with the Good Shepherd Jesus, we might be led into His Kingdom.

God love you.
Father Finelli

 

APRIL REFLECTIONS

The Sanctity of Marriage

The Catechism of the Catholic Church says this about marriage: 1601 "The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament."

This shows the importance of the gift of that marital bond, something that you and I really have to fight for today. The holy father Pope John Paul II talked about the dignity of human life and the dignity of the marriage covenant. Some sense of commitment to marriage has been lost nowadays. I was ordained a deacon fourteen years ago and then once every month or every two or three months, we had one child being baptized where the parents were not married. Today we are lucky if we have one family who is married baptizing the baby. What a sad reality! In just fourteen years, what a change!

The reality of the brokenness of that matrimonial covenant reflects the brokenness of society. Whenever marriage is on an upswing, there is unity in society. When marriage is going through a crisis, society goes through a crisis. You see it with the Roman empire. When marriage and family fell apart, the people fell into all kinds of degradation. They had bathhouses where men had sexual relations with men and women with women, sexual relations with children. All kinds of things took place--abortion, infanticide. When they didn't want their babies, they would take their child out into the woods or other desolate places and leave them on a rock for the animals to eat or would smash their heads against a rock. Are we at that point again in society? In reality, we are. We have gone from abortion to infanticide where babies who don't meet our criteria, don't measure up to what we "ordered," are being destroyed.

The Church says that marriage has two purposes: first, it's open to the good of the spouses. What is that good? It's not having two cars in the garage or a big house or having a computer in every room. The good of the spouses is that we have our basic needs but that also have a deep unity with one another and with God. The purpose of marriage is that the husband and the wife help one another to fall in love with the Lord Jesus Christ, to become saints. The purpose of marriage is that you become saints. That's kind of easy, isn't it? When you get married, there's the honeymoon, but, after the honeymoon is over, you are like two rough stones banging against one another and everything goes downhill from there unless you have the Lord Jesus Christ in your life. Unless you have a life of prayer, go to Mass regularly, take part in the sacraments, marriage is bound to fail. Marriage must be rooted in the Lord Jesus Christ.

The second purpose of marriage is procreation and the education of children. In fact, when people come to the priest inquiring about making marriage preparations, we ask the question, "Do you intend to have children?" If they say, "No, we don't want children," then we have to call the chancery because, if they are not open to human life, there is a good possibility that the marriage would be invalid. That's not to say that they are old and can't have children. Nowadays it's the contraceptive mentality--couples don't want children because children have no place in their lives. They want to have riches instead.

Couples are also asked to educate their children. "Do you promise to do all in your power to raise these children as Catholics?" It's an important thing. Some couples say, "Well, it doesn't matter. She's Protestant. I'm Catholic. It doesn't matter as long as the kid makes a choice when they're old enough." It is important! It's important that we integrate into the lives of the children a life of faith, that we teach them that they are called to be holy, that we teach them that God loves them, that we teach them about the sacraments.

You and I who believe are the ones who have to bring it back to the family. We have to teach our children all we can if they are open. We teach our grandchildren their prayers and the dignity of mom and dad in the marital bond. Somebody was telling me last night--I was shocked--one teacher in Cranston made her students -- ages twelve or thirteen -- write about gay marriage. Can you imagine your kid coming home and telling you, "I have to write about gay marriage?" I would help them write one essay that teacher would never forget! There is no such thing as "gay marriage." In fact, it's an anomaly because the purpose of marriage is procreation. Two men can't have children on their own. Two women can't have children on their own. Even if scientists were to implant a baby--that's not procreation. Procreation is the coming together of a man and woman who join in that beautiful gift of marriage. The husband represents God and the wife represents the Church. They come together and they give life, not only for them but also that awesome gift of creative power that God shares with them, that God gives to them.

God love you,

Father Finelli
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Jesus in the Ordinary

After our Lord had risen from the dead, the apostles are waiting to know what Jesus really wanted them to do. They walked with Jesus for three years. They lived with Him, went everywhere He went, ate with Him, slept in the same places, saw Him heal the sick, raise the dead, cure lepers, cast out demons, and now Jesus is gone. And they are waiting. What do they do? They go back to the only thing they know how to do. Fishing. And they didn't do a very good job at that unless Jesus was around!

The third time that Jesus appeared to his disciples after the Resurrection was a beautiful encounter. The apostles are fishing and catching nothing, and then this stranger comes along and they don't even recognize Him, for they don't recognize His risen body. He tells them where to cast their nets to catch the fish. The first one to recognize Him is the one whom Jesus loved, probably the most innocent and loving of the apostles, the one who had given himself over completely to Jesus because he was pure of heart--the beloved John. He is the one we see in the paintings of Jesus at the last supper, leaning against Jesus because he wanted to be close to Jesus and to catch every word that came from our Lord's lips. He recognizes Jesus. That tells Peter that this is the Lord, and Peter is the first one to jump out of the boat, recognizing that authority that Jesus has given him,and runs to our Lord.

Sometimes we have to wait for the Lord to work in our lives. Or we wait for a new direction. Or we wait for what God wants from us. We live the ordinary, every day things of life, the hum drum, and Jesus comes. Sometimes we still don't recognize Him. We're waiting for Him. We're praying. We're in discernment. We're longing for Him and sometimes He's right there with us, just waiting for us to recognize His presence and to know that He is with us and we are not alone.

In the Church year, we celebrate Easter for an entire week--the week between Easter and Divine Mercy Sunday. Easter in the Church isn't just one day and it's all over. No, it's an entire week that we celebrate the Resurrection. We rejoice in the fact that Jesus has risen from the dead. We keep vigil with the Lord and the apostles, rejoicing that our Savior has risen. These resurrection appearances give us something to think about. It's a great thing for us to meditate on -- how does Jesus come to us in our daily lives? Do we let those moments of grace pass us by? Are we like the apostles--Jesus is there with us and yet we don't recognize Him. Take time to really look into your life. Where is the Lord in my life? How do I not recognize Him? Spend time in adoration, meditating on this. Give thanks to the Lord for, as He appeared to the apostles, He is also with us, even though we don't see Him. He is with us, especially as we receive the Eucharist.

God love you,
Father Finelli

 

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Becoming Leaven in the World

If we go back to the Book of Genesis, we see that God created the heavens and the earth. He created the animals and the fish. He created the stars above, the sun and the moon to give us light. He created light itself. He created the water and a big dome to cover the earth. Finally He created man. In Genesis 2, we see that, before God created the woman, He said to the man, "I give you dominion over the animals." So He asked him to name the animals, to find one to be suitable partner. So Adam named the animals. What's in a name?

If you go back to the old Jewish understanding, the Old Testament understanding of what a name is--a name means that you have power over something. It means that you rule over the thing or the person. It means that you have a relationship, that you know who the person is. For the Jew, to know the person's name means that you have an intimate, personal relationship. The Jew will never say the name of God. The name of God is so holy that they never pronounce that name. They just use a letter to pronounce to others who God is.

In the beginning, after God created everything, in the seven days of Creation, He said, "It is good. It is good. It is very good." We look around us and we say, "It is bad. It is very bad." What went wrong? Everything seems to have fallen apart. If you talk to those who are older than my generation, like my grand parents, maybe the older generations in our Church, they tell us that things are getting worse. One woman who came to me this morning said to me, "Father, it's crazy out there. And it's getting worse and worse. When you think it can't get any worse, it still gets worse than that." Why? Because of the original sin of Adam and Eve. We are all tainted. We have that concupiscence inside of us that draws us to sin, that draws us to evil, that leads us away from the Lord. But there is good news to the story of Adam's fall. God had a plan. Even in our disobedience, even in the disobedience of our first parents, God had a plan. He knew His creation. He knew what would happen. So the Father had a plan of sending His only begotten Son. St. Augustin tells us, "Oh, happy fault of Adam," because, if it wasn't for the fault of Adam, we wouldn't have the Lord Jesus Christ Who came to set us free from our sin.

In this past week, we celebrated the Passion and Death of Our Lord. Today, Easter Sunday, we celebrate His glorious Resurrection, His victory. It's when Jesus Christ overcame satan, sin, and death, when He overcame the darkness of hatred, of sin and evil. He overcame war, poverty, despair. Jesus came to give us hope of eternal life. We celebrate that because it comes to us through the gift and grace of our baptism. On Easter, we renew our baptismal vows. The priest comes among us to sprinkle us with holy water to remind us of the day that Christ set us free.

We hear in the second reading from St. Paul, on Easter morn, that you and I are to be leaven to the earth. Christ depends on us. Christ's victory is complete, yet the effects of sin are still ravaging our world. We live in a time that the world needs faithful Christians more than any other time in history. Oh, yes, Jesus could snap His fingers and everything would be OK, but He gave us free will. We are that leaven, that yeast that raises the bread. St. Paul said, "Just a little leaven, a little yeast, raises the dough." Today, you and I have to be that leaven in the world. We have to be that force against evil, against hatred, to love where there is no love, to love those who hate us, to love the unlovable. Just two months ago, the Holy Father came out with a new document, "Deus Caritas Est," "God Is Love." Where there is love there is God.

There is so much evil in our world because there is no love. Why is there no love? Because there is no Presence of God. People who have no faith, have no hope. But you and I, because we have Christ, are those who bring hope to the world. So let us pray that, as we renew our baptismal vows, that we will grow in fidelity, that we can bring that hope to the world, that we can be the yeast to the world, that it might rise again with the love of Christ.

God love you.
Father Finelli

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Rejecting Christ, Accepting Christ

Jesus talks about those who have the opportunity to know Him but reject Him. What are the excuses people make? I think there are many. First, inconvenience. Jesus is inconvenient. It's not convenient for me to go to church on Sunday because my kids play sports or because I want to go shopping or because I want to do this or that. Or I'm going to have to change if I accept the Lord and follow the Lord in my life. Well, I can't shack up with my girlfriend any more or I can't do the things that I'm doing because they would be against the Gospel. There are so many excuses people use.

I think that, although we may go to Mass and try to follow the Ten Commandments, we still make excuses in our lives not to follow the Lord fully, because each and every day we can go further and further. I was impressed when I was watching a movie about Pope John Paul II. Each day of his life, he didn't just stay stagnant; he went deeper and he went further in his relationship with God because, if you don't go further and you don't go deeper with the Lord, what do you do? You go backwards.

I think we have to look into our lives and ask ourselves, how can we open our lives, how can we open our hearts, that Jesus might come more fully into them? How can we be more deeply converted? How can we give ourselves more completely? How can we open the doors more completely? How can we change? Because the Lord wants to come more fully into our lives. In fact, He'll come more fully into our lives until we close these eyes of ours and we are six feet under--that's when He can't come any further., that's when the door is completely closed, that's when we no longer have an opportunity to open ourselves to His grace.

So let us pray that we may open more fully, that we might let the Lord come. That's our prayer, that the Lord might come, transform us, make us new, that He might find a resting place within our hearts.

God love you,
Father Finelli

 

Jesus' Hour

We hear about "the hour of Jesus" for the first time in the Gospel of John at the wedding feast of Cana. Our Lady goes to Jesus and says (I paraphrase), "They are without wine. Can't you do something?" Jesus says, "Woman, this is not My hour. My hour has not yet come."

At one point, Jesus said that His hour is when He's lifted up, raised upon the cross. That's His hour. His hour of delivering His people from their sins. As we approach Holy Week and Palm Sunday (Passion Sunday), we approach the hour of Our Lord. It's a most important time. We have that hour daily, the three o'clock hour. This is the time when we focus on the passion and the death of the Lord.

A great devotion, the Divine Mercy devotion, is often prayed at that hour, to let that hour transform our lives. It's the hour of our salvation, when Christ gave everything so that we could be reconciled to the Father. It's so important that we recognize that hour during the day, whether at three o'clock we pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet or just take a moment of silent prayer within our minds, wherever we might be, to thank the Lord for giving us that hour, for giving His life for us, for giving every last drop of blood. If it weren't for that hour, we wouldn't find salvation. So today take some time, and every day not only during Lent but all through the year, to remember the Lord's hour.

On Friday's, you might want to take the time to pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet at that hour, if you can, in remembrance of the Lord's Passion. Every Friday of the year, the bishops tell us, is to be a day of penance. During Lent, they ask us to abstain from meat on Fridays, but we are to do another penance on the other Friday's of the year as well. It's always a time of penance on Friday because it's the day of the Lord's hour, the day of our salvation, the day when Jesus died for us.

God love you,
Father Finelli
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MARCH REFLECTIONS

Seek the Lord in Silence

"I am the Lord your God. Hear my voice."

How often do we take time to listen to the Lord? To take time in silence? Sometimes we come into the church and we in such a rush. We come in seconds before Mass begins and we leave right after Mass is over. We don't take time to sit in quiet just to be with the Lord. Or when we are here, we rattle off prayer after prayer after prayer or read a book or have to say something. We can never be in silence. We are a people who are afraid to be quiet. We get in the car, and we turn on the radio. We go in the house and we turn on the television in one room, we turn on the stereo in another, we go in the bedroom and turn on the TV there. There is so much noise, noise, noise that you just want to throw all those noise makers into the trash.

The noise drives me nuts after a while. You know, I love music. I have my ipod and I have thousands of songs on it, but after a while, you listen to it and it just does nothing for you. We are not made for noise. We are made to be filled with the Lord, and anything else we try to fill our inside with, after a while, we have enough of it. Now music is beautiful. It was created by God. We can worship God and praise Him by listening to music, but it's not God. You need the Lord to fill the inside. You need to be alone with the Lord.

He wants to speak to us, but we'll never hear God's voice or hear the Lord speaking to us unless we take time for silence. I'm not saying you are going to hear His voice coming down from heaven saying, "I want you to do this." No, that's not how God normally works. He speaks in the quiet. He speaks through the movements in our hearts and our souls, to lead us to do things that are good, to lead us to avoid things that are evil.

So if we feel that God is there, how do we know it's God's voice? Well, first and foremost those inner promptings will never go against what Sacred Scripture teaches. It never goes against the teachings of the Church. I've heard people say, "Well, the Lord wants me to do this and the Church is wrong." Well, the Church isn't wrong. The Fathers of the Church always said, right from the beginning, "Where there is Christ, there is the Church." If we separate ourselves from the voice of the Church, we separate ourselves from the voice of Christ. So let us take time during this season now to get in the habit, not just during the season of Lent but to get into the habit to take time for silence, to be alone with the Lord. If you can't do it in the Church, do it in your homes. Shut off the television, put the vacuum cleaner away because there is going to be more dust after you finish. Spend time alone with the Lord. Spend time alone with Him in the silence.

You know why we don't like silence? Because when we go into silence, first and foremost we have to listen to our insides. "You have to do this. You have to do that. If you don't do this, you're going to be out of touch with everybody else in the neighborhood." Our minds run away. Then you start to see your imperfections, faults, and failings because, when we are in silence with God, we open our heart and the Lord says, "You know, you're not right because you are doing this" or "You're not doing that." Silence is what leads us into the heart of God. It leads us into contemplative prayer, and contemplative prayer leads us into deep union with Jesus Christ. If we don't take time for silence, it will never happen.

So today let's make a commitment to spend at least five minutes a day with God in silence each day. Then make it ten minutes, fifteen, twenty. Then see if eventually you can spend an hour in silence with the Lord. Then, after a while, you will see that things will begin to happen. You are going to hear His voice--not an audible voice (maybe you will but very few people hear an audible voice). You will hear Him speaking within your heart, giving you impulses, that sense that they say women have, that sixth sense. They know what's happening with their kids and their family because the Lord speaks in their heart. Usually women are more open to being moved by the Spirit. That's why they have this sense with their kids. Each one of us has this sense. It's called the grace of God. We have to seek that grace in silence.

God love you,
Father Finelli
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Lesson in Forgiveness from Joseph and His Brothers

The Old Testament story of Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37-50) is one of my favorites and, I think, a favorite of many people. It tells a lot. It's a story of resentment, anger, jealousy, and it is really the story of human nature. To review the story: Joseph was the favorite son of Israel's old age. His jealous brothers sold him as a slave, but in Egypt he gained the Pharaoh's favor and was made chief overseer of the country. Foreseeing a famine, Joseph stored up vast amounts of crops in advance, so that other nations came to Egypt to buy them when food began to run out. Among those who came were Joseph's brothers who did not recognize the Egyptian man as the brother whom they thought was either dead or enslaved. Joseph recognized them, however, and forgave them, bringing his family to Egypt to preserve their lives during the famine.

If we look at so many families, we can see the jealousy and resentment if a mother and father die and then that inheritance comes along. What happens? So many families are ripped to shreds because people are focused on money and things rather than what they should be focused on. In so many families, if someone says or does something, the family cuts them off for the rest of their life. How many families do we know like that? Maybe it happens even in our own families. Looking way back, I can see some of that even in my own family. The anger, the jealousy, the gossip becomes so evil, and that's a human story. It's the story of Joseph and his brothers.

That's a story for all of us. We need to look into our hearts and our lives. Where is that brokeness in our families? Where are the people in our lives whom we resent or toward whom we are angry? The Lord calls us to forgive and to accept forgiveness and healing, because, in reality, who is the one hurt in the story? Was it Joseph? Although they sold him off and he could have gone to a horrible life, it wasn't Joseph. It was his brothers. If it weren't for Joseph being forgiving, what would have happened to the brothers? They would have starved to death. But Joseph was loving. Joseph is really the sign of Jesus for us because, in reality, all of us are the ones deserving of death because we sold Jesus out by our sins. We gave Jesus away by our sins, but what happens? He's there waiting for us, waiting for our return. Then, like Joseph, He embraces us when we come just like Joseph embraced his brothers. He brought us back to the Father.

Let us pray that we might have the love of Joseph. When people come against us, may we forgive them. Let us let go of family resentments, family hatreds, past things that happened, and be that loving arm of Jesus.

God love you,
Father Finelli
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Personal Responsibility

Ezekiel talks about personal responsibility. Many people have the question, "How can it be that someone lives a wicked life and then, at the end of their life, they have some kind of conversion, meet the Lord, and they're going to go to heaven?  How could it be that someone who lives such a virtuous life and, at the end of their life, turned away from the Lord and did something horrendous, and could go to hell? Because we all have personal responsibility before the Lord. We're all called to live that call of the Lord, to live the moral life, to live the Ten Commandments and the teachings of the Church each and every day of our lives. Because we lived a holy life, a saintly life when we were children doesn't mean we're excused when we become old.

Because we live a terrible life, maybe as young people or children, doesn't mean that we can't go to the Kingdom. One example is a good friend of mine, Father John Corapi. You know Fr. Corapi. You watch ETWN. You've seen Fr. Corapi.  He lived a wild life. He was a classic example of that classical story of the man who demanded his inheritance and went off and then became a prodigal son. A man who had everything, ended up in Hollywood, had a great real estate business, ended up turning to cocaine and the most despicable things he could think of, until his mind was completely burned out from drugs and a wild life.  But the Lord touched him, and today's he's a priest of the Lord. He had a major conversion and came back to the Lord.  He's found the Lord, he's faithful to the Lord, and thank God for that. But he has to remain faithful until death, like you and I. We have to remain faithful to the Lord until we reach the Kingdom. That person who might live a horrendous life just might wind up meeting the Lord, just like Jesus said to the Good Thief, "This day you will be with Me in Paradise."

Where's the justice in it all? God's ways are not our ways. Thank God for His great mercy. Thank God for His great love because, in reality, all of us are not worthy of the Kingdom. Only God makes us worthy because we respond to His light and grace. So let us pray that we may always be faithful to His Love, that we might be faithful to our baptismal call each and every day of our lives, because, as St. Augustine said, "if not for the grace of God, there go I."

We can look at the worst person on the face of the earth, the person who lives the most despicable life, and sometimes we tend to do that. "Look at how terrible he is." "Look at how terrible she is." We act kind of like the Pharisees did in the Gospels. "She's a prostitute. How can Jesus love her? How can He forgive her? How can He be in her presence?" The grace of God touched her. She changed. If not for the grace of God, you and I can do worse. How awesome that is, isn't it? The mercy and love of Almighty God. We really have to pray for those in the world, those around us who are far from the Lord's grace, and ask God to touch them with His Divine Mercy. At any moment, any one can be saved. Anyone can have the grace of conversion. That is our life, what we are about--bringing everyone we meet to the joy of the Kingdom. Let us pray that God might open their hearts and  that we might keep our own hearts in the grace of God.

God love you,
Father Jay Finelli

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The Real Purpose of Fasting and Abstaining

During the first week of Lent, the Church brings to our attention readings on fasting and how important fasting is for our lives. But they set it into a context.

On Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, Catholics fast and abstain. In addition, every Friday during Lent, Catholics abstain from eating meat. Sometimes people get confused between fasting and abstaining. Abstaining isn't fasting. Fasting isn't abstaining. Abstaining is "giving something up." Giving up eating meat on a Friday, which we Catholics do. Fasting is "eating small portions." It might even be eating only bread and water or eating only one meal a day. We fast and abstain. So what's it all about? What should be our attitude when we fast?

Scripture tells us that those who fast should not put extra work on those under their charge. They should not be quarreling or fighting. They should have a changed life. Fasting really should change our lives. It should open our hearts to the grace of God. So if, when we fast and abstain, we go around all day being grouchy and mean to everyone, we are losing the grace that God is offering to us. Fasting and abstinence should open our hearts to the grace of God. It should open our hearts to become more like Christ. Remember, Jesus emptied Himself so that He could do the Father's Will. That's what we do when we fast and abstain. We empty ourselves first and foremost from sin.

When people go to Medjourge (where yet to be approved apparitions of Our Lady are said to be taking place), Our Lady talks about fasting twice a week on bread and water, every Wednesday and every Friday. Everybody freaks out. "Oh, I could never do that!" But Our Lady says, "There is one thing more important--when we fast from our sins." So really, our focus during Lent should be that we fast and abstain because that is what the Church asks of us, but first and foremost we fast and abstain from our sin. We wean ourselves from those bad habits, faults, and failures that keep us from Christ.

So as we go through Lent, let's remember that maybe abstaining isn't such a big deal. We give up meat, but most people like to eat fish. I'd rather eat pasta anyway. So in reality, is it really a penance? The great penance is that, by doing these things the Church asks of us, we break away from our bad habits, our selfishness, our pride, our faults, our failures, and make our hearts more open to the Lord. That's what fasting and abstaining are all about. We can give up everything in the world and still not have our hearts centered completely on Christ. So let us pray today that, as we abstain from meat, we might give Christ the meat of our hearts so that He might transform us more into Himself.

God love you,
Father Jay Finelli
 

 

FEBRUARY REFLECTIONS

Putting on the Traits of God

In the letter of Saint James in Scripture, James puts human traits on God. He said that "the Lord is compassionate and merciful." In a sense, you can't say that the Lord has human traits. You can say that the Lord Himself IS Compassion. The Lord IS Mercy. To say that the Lord is compassionate and merciful really limits the compassion and the mercy of God. The Lord is the fullness of compassion and the fullness of mercy.

The way we see that is really in His Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. Jesus Himself became "Compassion." In His Passion, He gave Himself completely for us. In fact the word "compassion" -- com passio -- means to be filled with passion, to have passion for another. Jesus gave Himself completely because of His great love for us. He became our sin because of His love for us. He gave every drop of His blood because of His love. In His mercy, He is Divine Mercy. He is the Mercy of the Father looking down upon us, giving Himself completely for us.

We live in our human attributes, but God is the fullness of mercy and of compassion. So when we emulate the Lord, we take on the traits of God. He does not take on our traits. He is Mercy; we become merciful. He is Compassion; we become compassionate. The more we put on the Lord Jesus Christ, the more we "become like God," the more we put on these traits of who God is. We put on the traits of divinity! God is Love. We become loving people. It's a call of the Lord to become like God Who is Mercy, Who is Compassion, Who is Love.

God love you,
Father Jay Finelli

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Be Doers of the Word and Not Hearers Only

Saint James talks about faith and works in his letter in the New Testament. That is one of the books that is not included in the King James Bible, a non-Catholic Christian Bible. When Martin Luther broke from the Catholic Church, he said, "It's faith alone that will save you!" Well, in reality, it is faith alone that will save you. Faith in Jesus did that saves us, but, for anybody who has faith, anyone who has been touched by the Lord, that isn't enough. We wouldn't have Mother Teresa or we wouldn't have a John Paul the Great, as great examples of faith if they didn't put their faith into action. Can you imagine a Mother Teresa who just remained in her convent, prayed all day for the poor, but did nothing to actually help them? This would not be the Mother Teresa who we know and love. Or how about a John Paul the Great who just lived inside the Vatican walls and never went out? No. Faith compels people to action. In fact, people who don't do anything but pray -- even a monk locked in a monastery does more than pray. They usually have some kind of ministry that reaches out to the world. It could writing books, some kind of prayer line, it could be making jelly. But somehow they reach out to the world beyond them.

This is not to say that people who are bedfast and who can only pray are not living full Christian lives. They can do things for others, besides praying for them, by offering up their sufferings for the souls of others.

For the Christian, you can't be alone. You can't just sit on your rocker and not reach out to the world. Faith leads to action. In fact, faith is only seen by what we do. We respond to the grace the Lord gives to us. St. Paul said, "I'm compelled. I have a passion for preaching the Gospel." When we love the Lord, it moves beyond you and me. In fact, when we read the Gospel, we hear Jesus saying, "Whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the Gospel will save it."

Because we love the Lord, we are willing to give up our lives for Christ. We are willing to do things for others. There are some people who might be giving to a Catholic Charities campaign, helping Hurricane Katrina victims, or working a soup kitchen or helping out in a different way. We can't take the faith in our heart and leave it there. Jesus pushes us to help others. Imagine the Apostles who didn't preach. What if they said, "Thank God, we've been saved. Jesus has changed our lives. We don't have to do anything else." They would not have preached the Gospel. They would not have spread the word. You and I wouldn't be here today. So let us take that example of the gift of our faith and grow in that desire to give to others by preaching the word and by living it and doing good works for others.


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Saints Benedict and Scholastica: Examples of Complementarity of Men and Women in the Spiritual Life (12 February 2006)

Do you know that twins have some kind of unique connection to one another? At my former parish, the housekeeper and cook was a twin. Her brother was a priest who was in Mozambique. In fact, he was basically responsible for building up the mission there. Every so often, she would say, "There's something wrong with my brother Joe. I know it." I would say, "How can you know that?" And she would reply, "I just know it. I'm a twin. I know it. There's something wrong with my brother Joe."

Well, one day, she said, "There's something wrong with my brother Joe." This went on every day for about a week. Shortly after that, we found out that he had cancer. Eventually he came back to East Providence and there he died. All along the way, you could see the intense connection they had, one to the other. Somehow God allows this spiritual bond. Twins grow together in the womb for nine months, so God must do something there. As you know, there is a connection between mother and child; there is something there. The mother tends to know that something is going on with her children.

We just celebrated the feast of St. Scholastica. She was the twin sister of Saint Benedict. They were born in 480. There is not much known about their childhood, but we know that eventually Benedict went off and founded that awesome monastery at Monte Cassino in Italy, and Scholastica founded a monastery just five miles away down the mountain. Every year they would gather together so they could spend time together talking about spiritual things. In those days, women were not allowed in the monastery and the men were not allowed in the convent. The monastery had this farmhouse down the hill, so Benedict and some of his monks would go down the hill and they would gather there with Scholastica. Then Benedict and Scholastica would spend hours of prayer and conversation together while sharing about the Lord. Just before she died, at the last time that they met, Benedict said, "Well, it's getting dark now. We had better get back to the monastery." She said, "No, stay with me. Let's pray together all night long." But he said, "No." So she bowed her head to the table and prayed and suddenly this wild storm came along so Benedict and his monks couldn't return to the monastery. Benedict, all upset, said, "What have you done? How could you have done this?" She said, "I asked you for one simple thing and you wouldn't do it, but the Lord listened to me when I asked Him." So she and Benedict shared all night long about spiritual things, and Benedict returned to the monastery in the morning.

This incident shows the power of prayer in that situation. Although Benedict wouldn't do what Scholastica wanted, the Lord intervened due to her prayers. Just five days later, Scholastica died, and God allowed Benedict to see the soul of his sister flying up to heaven. Benedict buried Scholastica in the tomb that he had prepared for himself in the great monastery of Monte Cassino. Years later, he was buried in another tomb right next to that one.

It's interesting that the Pope has chosen the name Benedict. He has a right hand woman. Her name is Ingrid Stampa. If you have done any reading, you can find information on the internet about her. She is a consecrated virgin who belongs to a specific group of consecrated virgins in Germany. She has been his right hand person ever since he's been in Rome. She helps him write documents. She translates for him.

That complementarity of Benedict and Scholastica is seen throughout the spiritual life. You see it in Francis and Clare, in many of the saints and even in our own time. You see John Paul the Great and Mother Teresa. All of these saints work hand in hand. It shows that complementarity of the unity of men and women, most generally seen in married life. The love between husband and wife brings forth children. Well, in the spiritual life, God also works in that way. Sometimes the world gets it wrong. They think it is dangerous for women and men to work together if they're not married, but God works in that way in the Church, in the world. Think about Mary and Jesus and what great spiritual fruit comes from their union.

So pray for the intercession of Saints Benedict and Scholastica, and for our holy father Pope Benedict, XVI, that he may have effective renewal as did Benedict and Scholastica in the world of Europe during their time. Ask them to intercede for us so that we might have a deeper life of prayer and do great things for the Lord as they did.

God love you.,
Father Finelli
 

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We See Miracles (5 February 2006)

Many people like to go to shrines. We have, not far from us, the Shrine of St. Anne in Fall River, Massachusetts. I remember my own parish as a boy, in which was a Shrine to St. Therese, the Little Flower. When I was a boy, there were crutches there, left by people who had been lame or paralyzed and who had been cured at that shrine. They aren't there any longer. One of the later pastors came along and said to the maintenance man, "Take all these and the statues to the dump." Many great miracles took place at that shrine. In fact, one of the miracles used in the canonization of St. Therese took place there.

Sometimes we think we have to go to these great shrines for miracles. Lourdes. Fatima. St. Anne's. Here or there. And we think that those are the only places where God works miracles, signs, or wonders. But this week we celebrated the Feast of St. Blaise. Traditionally on that day there is the blessing of throats with candles blessed on the previous day, the Feast of the Presentation. Why the blessing of throats? To remind us that God's miracles, healing, and power are not reserved for a specific place or a specific shrine. God does miracles. If we are people of prayer, God will work miracles.

The sacramentals were given to us as signs of God's power. Because I take some blessed candles and put them on your throat and say some words, it's not magic. God loves His people. You don't have to go to some healing service to experience God's healing. God loves His people and loves to work in His people. God wants to touch your life and mine. That's what the sacramentals show us. They are not magical powers. God doesn't do some magical thing when we have certain candles held like a cross and say some magic words. No. It's God's love and God's power. God works in the sacraments. God's grace works in our lives. God is alive and well.

When Jesus left the Apostles, He sent them forth and said, "Go out and make disciples of all nations. Baptize. Cast out demons. Heal the sick." And He sent them out. We don't always see dramatic things. The greatest healing that you and I see is when someone goes to confession and their sins are forgiven. That's the greatest miracle. We see miracles every day. We may not think we see any with our eyes, but we who believe see miracles every time the priest says, "This is My Body." Then the bread is changed into the Body of Christ. Every time the priest says in confession, "I absolve you from your sins," we see a miracle. Every time there is the anointing of the sick, we see miracles. God may not physically heal the sick, but God gives power, the power needed during those difficult times of life which are preparation to enter His kingdom. So let us trust in the Lord, that He works His grace even today, 2000 years after He went to the kingdom and left His Apostles to do His work in the Church.

God love you,
Father Finelli

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Mustard Seed Planted by God (29 January 2006)

Then He told them another parable. "The kingdom of heaven is like a mustard seed, which a man took, and sowed in his field. This is, indeed, the smallest of all seeds, but when it is grown, it is the greatest among herbs and becomes a tree so that the birds of the air come and rest in its branches." (Matthew 13:31-32)

Jesus is saying that, when we do things for Him, He gives us the seed to plant, and, as we follow what He wants us to do, we grow. I think this is a great example. I am reading a book by Raymond Arroyo on Mother Angelica. If you looked at that little, tough Italian nun, you'd say that all the odds were against her doing what she did, building this great empire of Catholic media--television network, radio, internet, short wave radio. All the odds were against her. In fact, she had some bishops fighting against her, trying to destroy the network, but what did God do? It was God's work. It wasn't her work. All she had to do was plant the seed and do what God wanted. And I think that's an important message for all of us.

If we believe God wants us to do something, when God has a work in our life, you have to go forward with complete trust, not worrying about how you're going to do it, are you going to get the money, where you are going to have the resources, if you have the talent. Because if it's God's work, nothing can stop it. If it's God's work, it will be accomplished. If it's God's work, it will succeed.

I think we can all look in our lives and see the various ways God has done things that we had not thought possible or how other people thought they were impossible in our lives. 'Oh, you can't do that. You're crazy. How can you do that?" If God wants it, it will be a success. If He doesn't want it, we find out because it will fall apart. It's kind of like that saying in Scripture in the book of Acts (Acts 3: 38-39) in which the apostles were arrested and brought for their second trial before the Sanhedrin. At this trial, a Pharisee named Gamaliel go up and gave some examples of so-called prophets who had arisen, had a following for a time, and then, upon their death, the foment they had caused disappeared. He then advised, '"So now I tell you, have nothing to do with these men, and let them go. For if this endeavor or this activity is of human origin, it will destroy itself. But if it comes from God, you will not be able to destroy them; you may even find yourselves fighting against God." They were persuaded by him.'"

In other words, if something is from God, there is nothing we can do to stop it. But if it is not from God, it's going to fall apart. So we can look at our lives and, if we feel that God inspires us to move, to do things, not for ourselves, but for His kingdom, then we have to have that trust and all will come about in God's time.

God love you,
Father Finelli

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Forgive as God Has Forgiven Us (22 January 2006)

In the Old Testament story of David, David and his men are hiding from Saul who is seeking to take David's life. With Saul in pursuit, David and his men take shelter in a cave, and Saul goes into that very same cave to relieve himself. One of David's men says to David, "Here's your chance. God has delivered your enemy into your hands. Give me permission and I will kill Saul with one stoke." David won't let the man kill the king because God had anointed Saul as king.

I wonder how many of us, if we were in that same situation in that cave, and along comes the king who is going to take our life, how many of us would have let that opportunity pass by? Saul had come into the cave to relieve himself. What a perfect opportunity! He's indisposed. How many of us would have taken that sword and killed our enemy?

But David had mercy. David saw the love of God. He wanted to be reconciled with the king. That's a great example for all of us. David shows us that we have to leave behind the past. David could actually have killed Saul and become king in Saul's place because David had a great army with him, but he chose to be as the Lord Jesus was--to be loving, merciful toward our enemies and let the past be the past and go on. What a great example, even in the Old Testament! What a model of what Jesus did for us! Jesus was the one who was "in the cave" -- He had to die for us, yet He forgave us. He let us live and go on. So let us pray that we might be like David and our Lord, forgiving, as God has forgiven us.

God love you,
Father Finelli.

 

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Different Than the World (15 January 2006)

I am always struck by the chosen people saying to Samuel the prophet (1 Samuel 8), "We, too, must be like other nations with a king to rule over us and lead us in warfare." They want to be like everybody else. I kind of think that is where we are as a Church in the midst of the world today. Priests want be like lay people. The lay people want to be like priests. Religious want to be like ordinary people. The Church does not want to look different from anybody else. We all want to look alike because we think we are going to offend everybody. And I think that's a bad idea.

I think priests need to know that they're priests. Catholics need to know that they're Catholics. Christians need to know that they're Christians. We have watered down the faith for too long. We need to be different than everybody else in the world. Look what's happened to us.

Vatican II was misinterpreted. Everything was open which was a good thing, so we could have everybody relate to us. That was a good thing. But I think that, in the meantime, what we've done is taken the baby with the bath water and thrown him out, too, because we want to be like everybody else. That's not what Vatican II said. It said, "Open the doors. Change some things so people can relate, but don't become like the world. Don't let the world in."

Pope Paul VI recognized that world had come in. Following the Council, he said, "The smoke of satan has entered the Church." And how true that is, isn't it? You go to some countries and you will never see a priest in a collar. They will be in three piece suits and ties. The Church has said, "The priest needs to be different."

We can't just go around just trying to be good buddies with the world. You and I have to be different. As Catholic Christians we have to live differently than the world lives. If we are not living apart from the world, then you and I are failing in the mission that Christ has given to us. That mission is that each one of us needs to be a witness to the Gospel. If we are just like everybody else, we fail. You and I are called to be like Christ, a sign of contradiction in the world, unlike those people of God who said, "We have to be like everybody else." No. You and I have to be different. We are different. By the gift of grace in our baptism, we are configured to Christ and made like Christ. If we are like the world, we have failed.

So let us pray that we have changed, that we might be a sign of contradiction, that those around us can say, "You know, there is something about them that is different. They live differently than the world lives. They don't do the same things we do. They don't talk the way we talk. They don't dress the way we dress. They're different because they love Jesus Christ. They are Roman Catholic Christians."

God love you,
Father Finelli

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Podcasting: Another Way to Reach the World for Christ (8 January 2006)

"There is an intermediate situation, particularly in countries with ancient Christian roots, and occasionally in the younger Churches as well, where entire groups of the baptized have lost a living sense of the faith, or even no longer consider themselves members of the Church, and live a life far removed from Christ and his Gospel. In this case what is needed is a 'new evangelization' or a 're-evangelization.'" (Redemptoris Missio #33)

As we enter 2006, most committed Christians recognize the serious difficulties facing the Church and the world. Violence is rising on a global scale. In the past twenty years, we have experienced a breakdown of marriage and family life. Alternative, sinful lifestyles are becoming the norm. And our young people are led to believe that recognizing sinful behavior is being judgmental and that we must be all inclusive, even in areas of gravely sinful and disordered actions.

All of this helps us to recognize more clearly the need for a 'new or re-evangelization' of the world, but more importantly of those who are already baptized.

Thank God for the many breakthroughs in modern communication; now the ordinary person is able to do great things for the Lord. One of the latest is called Podcasting or "Godcasting" among some circles. Podcasting is a means for people to share audio broadcasts, over the internet, in a form that can be downloaded to your computer, your iPod or any Mp3player. If you do not have an iPod or Mp3 player, you can listen right on a website.

I want to encourage you to visit a few sites that offer podcasts. I felt the need to reach out to as many people as possible. Visit my new website at www.iPadre.net Also visit a group of Catholic podcasters that I belong to at www.DisciplesWithMicrophones.org If you received an iPod or Mp3 player fore Christmas, I give detailed directions on how to subscribe on my website!

God love you,
Fr. Finelli
 

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Contemplation of the Face of God (1 January 2006)

Today is the Solemnity of Mary, the Mother of God.  Imagine, Mary and Joseph were entrusted with the greatest baby of all time, the very Son of God. Imagine, Mary holding that baby in her arms, looking into the face of God! That is what contemplation is all about--looking into the face of God. We are called to be contemplatives--to look at the face of God. We might not physically hold Him in our arms, although we do hold Him in our hands when we receive Him in the Eucharist. That is why it is so important, after receiving Holy Communion, that we spend some time in contemplation and thanksgiving for receiving God! As priest, I hear the doors slamming after Communion, and I wonder why. Take that time to contemplate the face of God, to spend time in deep, intense union with the Lord Jesus Christ Who comes to us. That is what the Christmas season, what life, actually, is all about: contemplating the face of God.

Today I wish Happy Solemnity to all of you--whether you have a husband or a wife or whether you are single--it is a day for all of us. Not only is it about our human families but we have a spiritual family united in Christ. Happy Feast Day!

God love you,
Father Finelli
 

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