Fulfilling the Catholic Church's Call to Penance and Repentance

in the Modern World

The Confraternity of Penitents

"You shall love the Lord your God with your whole heart, with your whole soul, and with all your mind, (and) you shall love your neighbor as yourself."  (Jesus's words as recorded in Matthew 22:37-38)

Apostolate:  The Oratory of Divine Love

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Saint Catherine of Genoa

(1447-1510)

I consider all that befalls me, except sin, as coming from the hand of God.  Sin is mine alone just as is all concern with the self.

-- St. Catherine of Genoa


Let every suffering and pain be welcome that comes from God's will, for you have illuminated me, O Lord, for the last thirty-six years or so. For your sake I have always sought to suffer, within as well as without.  And this desire has never let me suffer greatly.  On the contrary, all those things that I have undergone that seemed intense suffering were, because of your will, sweet and consoling.

-- St. Catherine of Genoa


O Lord, do with me what you will.

--St. Catherine of Genoa


The souls in Purgatory cannot remember the good and evil in their past nor that of others.  Such is their joy in God's will;, in His pleasure, that they have no concern for themselves but dwell only on their joy in God's ordinance, in having Him do what He will.

--St. Catherine of Genoa


Jesus and the Adulterous Woman (detail)

Woodcut  by Gustave Dore (1832-1883)


"Repent and believe the Good News!" 

Penance means conversion. The Confraternity of Penitents is a world wide private Catholic association of the faithful, completely loyal to our Pope and the Magisterium. 

Our Rule of Life has been reviewed by our bishop and recognized in these words:  "this Rule does not contain anything contrary to our faith; therefore it may be safely practiced privately by you or by anyone inclined to do so.  . . . His Excellency is appreciative of your efforts to live and promote Franciscan spirituality and especially promote the neglected practice of penance and he wishes you success" (January 30, 1998). 

 Members of the Confraternity of Penitents live this Rule in their own homes, devoted to prayer, penance, fasting, conversion, and works of mercy modeled on Jesus Christ and inspired by the lives and teachings of

St. Francis,

St. Dominic,

St. Therese,

St. Benedict,

St. Augustine,

St. Ignatius,

and all the saints, most especially Mary, the Mother of God, who lived a life of true penance (conversion) in perfect union with our Lord.

May Our Lady and all the saints intercede for all who wish to embrace a life of penance, anywhere in the world, so that the grace of God will assist them to obtain every virtue necessary for a life of holiness and surrender to the Will of God! Amen.

PRAYER OF PENITENTS
"Most High, Glorious God, enlighten the darkness of my mind, give me right faith, a firm hope and perfect charity, so that I may always and in all things act according to Your Holy Will. Amen." (Saint Francis's prayer before the San Damiano Crucifix)


MISSION OF PENITENTS
"Go and repair My House which, as you can see, is falling into ruin." (The message given to St. Francis in a voice from the San Damiano Crucifix.)


ACTION OF PENITENTS
To pray for God's specific direction in one's life so that, through humbly living our Rule of Life, each penitent may help to rebuild the house of God by bringing love of God and neighbor to his or her own corner of the world.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Oratory of Divine Love:  One apostolate of the Confraternity of penitents


The Oratory of Divine Love is an apostolate encouraged by the Confraternity of Penitents.  Begun by Father Benedict Groeschel, CFR, the Oratory is a way for Catholics to meet together weekly in small groups, for one hour in one another's homes, to discuss the relationship between Scripture, Church doctrine, and the Catechism.  Each week, readings in both the Bible and the Catechism of the Catholic Church are provided along with a reflection, prayer, and questions for discussion.  Oratorians are to be totally loyal to all the teachings of the Catholic Church, the Pope, and the Magisterium and are to participate in the spiritual and corporal works of mercy, preferably with the poor.

Oratorians do not live a Rule of Life as members of the Confraternity of Penitents do. However, they study the Catechism and Scripture, as penitents do in their novice formation, and they engage in the works of mercy, as penitents are called to do.  Belonging to an Oratory is a way for a penitent to share his or her faith with other Catholics, who may not be penitents, and to come to understand even better the teachings of the Church.

SAINT CATHERINE OF GENOA, FOUNDER OF THE FIRST ORATORY OF DIVINE LOVE

The first Oratory was begun by Saint Catherine of Genoa, a wife, mother and mystic who died in Genoa, Italy, in 1510.  Although she wanted to become a cloistered nun, Catherine's wealthy parents married her to a wealthy patrician Guiliano Adorno.  Guliano was unfaithful, violent, and a spendthrift.  After suffering silently for five years, and trying to hold to her faith, Catherine decided "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em," and adopted worldly airs to try to win her husband's affection.  This cost her dearly for she lost her religious fervor and , when Catherine was twenty-six, she decided to have recourse to divine assistance. 

On the the eve of the Feast of St. Benedict, 1473,  Catherine prayed, "Saint Benedict, pray to God that He make me stay three months sick in bed." When she told her sister, a nun, about this prayer, her sister advised her to go to confession.  In confession, Catherine was overwhelmed by her sins and also by the love of God for her.  Drawn back to the path of devotion, she had a vision of our Lord carrying His cross, which caused her to cry out, "O Love, if it be necessary I am ready to confess my sins in public!"

Catherine's mystical ascent, severe mortifications, fasting, and fervor persisted.  A group of religious people, the first Oratorians, gathered about her to be guided into a Spirit-filled life.  Eventually her husband was converted, became a Franciscan tertiary, and agreed to live with Catherine in continence.

Catherine and Giuliano and those who followed them cared for the sick in the city hospital and the poor in their homes.  Catherine became director of the hospital of Pammetone in 1490.  Her Oratorians were instrumental in nursing plague victims in 1493 and in bringing the teachings of Christ to a country falling away from the faith.  Catherine wrote two mystical works, Dialogue between the Soul and the Body and Treatise on Purgatory.  Her feast day is September 15.

THE ORATORY TODAY

Father Benedict Groeschel, CFR, has been an encouraging supporter of the Confraternity, in its original foundation as the Brothers and Sisters of Penance and now under its current name as the Confraternity of Penitents.  On April 30, 2005, in Stamford, Connecticut, at the first weekend retreat for the Oratory of Divine Love, Father Benedict gave the Confraternity of Penitents his blessing with his prayer that the Confraternity "would always follow the spirit of Saint Francis."

The Confraternity of Penitents supports the work and goals of the Oratory of Divine Love.  We encourage penitents to consider founding a small oratory in their own locales.  Only three to six people are needed to begin an Oratory, and Oratorians do not have be CFP members. 

With the encouragement and permission of Father Benedict Groeschel, the Confraternity of Penitents is providing a weekly reflection for Oratorians on this link.  These are archived on this link.  In addition, books of weekly reflections for the Oratory, written by Fr. Groeschel and Jerry and Yolanda Cleffi,  as well a writings of St. Catherine of Genoa, are available on this link. 

We pray that God may bless and use the Oratory of Divine Love to spread the good news of our faith across the world.  We thank the Cleffi's and Father Benedict for their prayers for the Confraternity of Penitents and offer them our prayers in return. May God guide us always into closer union with Himself.

Start and Register an Oratory of Divine Love Prayer Group

If you would like to begin an Oratory of Divine Love Prayer Group, have already begun one, or have a pre-existing prayer group that you want to affiliate with Oratory, please follow the following procedures. We are also including a registration form on the bottom of this page. It must be filled out, signed and sent to us in order to be affiliated with the Oratory of Divine Love.

  1. Gather some devout Catholic friends, at least six who will pledge themselves to come together to pray once a week, or at least once every two weeks. Usually an oratory should have at least six members. However, homebound friends who cannot get to a group can register as affiliates. They will be able to pick up the meditations on this website or the Confraternity of Penitents can email them the reflections. If the group grows beyond fifteen or so, it loses its personal touch, and it will be necessary to start a second Oratory from the existing one. It is perfectly acceptable to limit the membership to a particular age group or parish, or even to a specific occupation, such as teachers or health care workers.
  1. Explain the requirements beyond attending the meeting:    
    • To pray fervently and reverently every day. Daily Mass attendance is highly recommended but is not required.
    • To show reverence, prayerfulness and silence in church, and especially before the presence of Christ in the Eucharist (whether exposed or in the tabernacle).
    • To work regularly at hands-on work for the poor and needy.
    • To be available to help in one’s parish, especially with religious education, ministry to the sick, and other parish work.
    • To carefully read the Holy Bible, especially the Gospels every day (use solid commentaries).    
    • To give a devoted example of a good Christian life at all times, and to speak up in a responsible way for the observance of the Gospel by Christians, and for a moral life for all of society. The members try to live up to their responsibility to confess Christ before all the world.
    • Be sure not to use the name of the Oratory in any action other than the weekly or bi-weekly prayer meeting. Members are encouraged to join all good programs, but the Oratory itself is a prayer movement.

Devout Christians who are not Catholics can be invited to the prayer meetings, even regularly, but with the understanding that this is a Catholic movement, loyal to the teaching of the Catholic Church and the Holy Father. While non-Catholic Christians are most welcome it would detract from the purpose of the Oratory if these were accommodated by diluting the principles and practices of the group, which is loyal to the teachings of the Church and to the Holy Father.

  1. Have the person starting the Oratory Group, referred to as the group Coordinator, and all of the members complete and submit the Registration Form. If the prayer group disbands, the coordinator is the person responsible to notify the ODL office that the prayer group has discontinued. If you are applying as a single affiliate, please note that on the Registration form. You will receive confirmation once your Registration Form has been received.

Detailed Outline of an Oratory Prayer Meeting

1) All remain quiet for a few minutes of recollection, then all stand.

2) The person chosen to lead this particular meeting invokes the help of the Holy Spirit by leading the singing of “Come Holy Ghost”, or by this prayer:

Come Holy Ghost, fill the hearts of the faithful,
and enkindle in us the fire of Your Love;
send forth Your Spirit and they shall be created
and You will renew the face of the earth.

Followed by:

Let us pray:
O God who by the light of the Holy Spirit instructs the heart of the faithful, grant us by that same Spirit to be truly wise and ever to rejoice in His consolation, through Christ our Lord, Amen.

3) Then there is a reading from the New Testament which is part of the weekly meditation. This should be read aloud by one reader and listened to by the remainder of the Oratory. Then all sit.

4) After a few quiet minutes for reflection on the Scripture passage, the meditation is read aloud. A period of reflection (approximately two minutes) should follow. Then the Quote from a Saint is read aloud followed by a minute for reflection. The Prayer should be prayed together, either by all Oratorians praying simultaneously or by having one Oratorian pray a line and the rest prayerfully repeat it. A minute of silent meditation follows. Then, using the Questions for Reflection as a guide, for about 20-25 minutes the members discuss how the passage applies to them as the members of the group or to devout Christians in our time. The discussion should focus on how to grow in love of God and neighbor and how to achieve the spiritual growth discussed in the meditation. Then the leader calls the discussion to an end.

5) At the end of the discussion, spontaneous prayer may be held, or some prayers or Psalms may be read that are pertinent to the reading. So that all Catholics feel comfortable at the Oratory gathering, no special prayers to the saints, private revelations, or prayers specific to special groups in the Church like the Charismatic Renewal should be used at this time. The prayer should invoke God, and using approved prayers of the Church, prayers written by the saints, or prayers from Scripture would be most appropriate. At the end of this prayer the personal petitions of the members may be given in this form:

That (so and so) may be restored to health;

Let us pray to the Lord.
All respond: Lord hear our prayer (or some similar form may be used).

6) (All stand) The meeting ends with the “Lord’s Prayer” and such aspirations as:

Jesus, meek and humble of heart, make our hearts like unto Yours; or,
O Mary conceived without sin pray for us who have recourse to thee.

At this point if a priest is present he will give the blessing. The meeting should not last for more than an hour.

7) The meeting ends with a hymn that the group knows – for example,

“Holy God We Praise Thy Name”.

Other hymns may be learned and practiced after the meeting. Any business like the time and plan of the next meeting is done after the hymn. The Rosary, Divine Mercy Chaplet, or a novena prayer may be added. Members may also want to discuss how they are fulfilling the other requirements of the oratory like the care of the poor and needy, parish assistance or apostolic work. In the course of time spiritual books may be suggested and these can be discussed at the “social” after the meeting. This social time is suggested and can be accompanied by simple refreshments. However, Oratorians should not be compelled to stay beyond the hour designated for the Oratory itself.

REGISTER AN ORATORY

(Note: This cannot be completed on line. Cut and paste into an email and email to us or paste this into a document and postal mail it to the Confraternity. Contact information below.)

Date of Registration:_________________________

Name of Oratory _____________________________________________

Location of Oratory (city, state) ______________________________________

Number of members______________ Date Established ___________________

Contact name for Oratory ____________________________________________

Address of Contact Person____________________________________________

City, State, Zip of Contact Person _______________________________________

Phone Number of Contact Person _______________________________________

Email of Contact Person _____________________________________________

Please submit this form to Confraternity of Penitents, 520 Oliphant Lane, Middletown RI 02842 USA  or email it to one of the email addresses below. The Confraternity will mail this to the appropriate Oratory contact and will follow up with a more detailed form mailed to the Contact person.  

 

Confraternity of Penitents

520 Oliphant Lane

Middletown RI USA

02842-4600

401/849-5421

bspenance@hotmail.com

copenitents@yahoo.com